Posts Tagged With polyamory
Polyamory is a portmanteau word and to be perfectly accurate a false cognate in that the Greek Polly meaning many and the Latin Amor (Love) are brought together to indicate a sexuality and state of being in which several partners are not only shared, but loved.
Itís a concept that many religions would frown upon, particularly in the western world where fidelity and monogamy are central tenets of a moral structure based on Christian teachings. So like many alternative lifestyles it can be difficult for polyamorous individuals and groups to express their lifestyle and feelings openly. Blogs offer a perfect opportunity for these people to express themselves while maintaining a level of anonymity, without which they would be unwilling to speak openly.
How do you handle when your partner wants sex and you don't? Do you masturbate, in bed, with your partner there? What's works for you monogamy, polyamory or some other situation? Join me as I discuss navigating sex.
Now that the first date was out of the way with MM, I felt a lot more relaxed about our second one. This still didnít prevent the flutter of butterflies as I arrived at the train station and stepped off the train. Coincidentally, our trains arrived a minute apart from opposite directions and across from each other on the platform. This didnít prevent a bit of a delay in our finding each other, as we got off the trains and unfortunately, walked in separate directions of each other. Finally, though, we did find each other in the main hall of the train station and we walked together to our hotel.
Early afternoonTuesday, I found myself on the train, headed to a lovely city to meet with a man. For the sake of this post, and any in the future, I shall call him ďMMĒ. Not because those are his initials, far from it actually, but because I met this man through MultipleMatch.com. MM and I have actually been communicating for quite some time now. The only thing I will share is, that, though he is from Switzerland (and a rather beautiful part of it) he does not live in this country, so when work sent him my way, of course I was delighted he could carve out some time to see me.
The next conscious thought I had was to wonder why Viv was sucking my cock, she didnít like the taste of my cum and would rarely give me a blowjob let alone cum in her mouth. I lay back and enjoyed this new Viv lapping the cocktail of our juices from my cock. The mouth on my cock started to swallow my shrinking appendage, then next to my ear I heard Vivís voice ďYou didnít think I could get into this suit on my own did you?
I was asked by Multiplematch.com to write a blogpost. The subject being, ďIf I identify as being polyamorous, why even get married?Ē This is a question I get asked quite often. Please have a read and find out my answer.
I donít do this often, and perhaps I actually should, but I stumbled on something today that I felt was worth sharing with our readers. If youíre thinking about skipping this because you donít live the polyamory lifestyle, please donít. I think this actually applies to whatever lifestyle you do live in. I think it comes down to being a shining example of how to treat a person/people respectfully and as an adult.
I suppose it has been awhile since I have discussed the goings on of my open marriage.
As you can gather, my wonderful affair with TC, has come to an end. Getting to this conclusion has been a bumpy, emotional road that in the end, had me in knots. What happened? TC acquired a girlfriend around New Years. What didnít happen? He didnít tell me. So as I made my plans to go to London for Eroticon in March, I made them including him in them. I was staying a full extra day, just so he and I could spend a whole day and night together. Unbeknownst to him, I had a company send me a pair of nipple clamps for review, with the intention to use with him. Even as I was making plans and then booked my tickets and hotel room accordingly, the news of him having a girlfriend never came out. Until a little over a week ago.
My filthy sex session that included an Njoy Plug, him telling me a story about his sex with another woman and me coming with a Lelo Vibrator.
250 posts ago, my life was very different than it is now. I was tentative, nervous and seriously wondering if I'd ever find acceptance for the way I wanted to live my life. When I look back at the early posts, I marvel at how much my life has changed...