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Domination is a more common sexual fetish than many people thin. But consider this. From time to time we all like someone else to take control in the bedroom and even a little bit of forceful direction is one form of domination. That in itself does not make it a fetish but it does illustrate the subtle ways in which domination can influence all our love play.

Of course what people would regard as true domination, the classical dominant controlling the sexual scenes, directing, restraining, maybe even punishing a partner is inextricably bound up with BDSM. So if you like a little domination, to dominate or to be dominated read some of the posts below.

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You’ve probably seen it before, the old argument that says “If you are kinky, then that is a product of some sort of trauma”. You’ve probably also seen that being a masochist is an expression of a self destructive behaviour. Do you recognise yourself, can you see yourself as a product of a trauma – Is the reason for your sexuality just a psychological disturbance?
Satisfaction through sex, a dominance & submission, and adult breastfeeding-adult nursing relationship.
A virtuous slut contemplates and sexually implements the 7 Contrary Virtues to combat the 7 Deadly Sins that she has committed.
A fortune cooking leads to thoughts of erotic spanking. Short prose.
A submissive is submissive because she wants to be. Of course she can end or change that at any time. I respect this gift she has given me, this gift of herself. As long as we are in agreement as to the definition of our relationship, where she is mine to do with as I please, I can tell her what to wear, how far to bend over, etc. She has already chosen to allow me to make these decisions, for both of us.
The bell chimes promptly at 20:00, followed by a faint, delicate knock at the door. James contains his excitement as best he can. He doesn’t need to look through the doors peephole to know who’s on the other side, but he does so any way. His eye gazes on his little lamb and he can not help but smile. Noelle bites her lower lip, fidgeting with her skirt, as she looks over her shoulder several times. She raises her hand for another try at the door and James takes in a deep breath before opening it.
“You spoil me,” he says to me. “I do? I can stop” “No need. I did not say it was a bad thing. You fill my ego as well as make my cock swell. I was not complaining.” “Yes, but I do not want it to get boring or excessive.” “You do not bore me…and if you become excessive you will be reigned in…as a submissive should be…” “hmmmm….”
Last night my submission consumed me. My ache for him reappeared. The night was cool and without a second body to keep me warm, I wore socks and my plaid pajama bottoms and nothing more. Except, of course, my pink collar. Last night I made it tight. Tight like a hand at my throat. As he would say: “Make it tight. Tight like a hand holding you down while your body is pounded with brutal intensity. Hardened flesh ravaging soft, tender flesh. The chain of your nipple clamps held tightly between my teeth.”
Give me the strength of patience, for there are days I have none. The ache in my mind, body and soul, is at times, too strong. Send me relief where there is none. May my desires not turn to needs, for a need unmet brings great sadness. Teach me that great things come to those that wait. My day will come and when it does, it will be glorious.
A piano bench, elaborately upholstered in the softest velour, in the center of the empty room. Lit by spot light from above, I am the show. Light captures the curves and dips of my back with each breath I take. On all fours, I catch your movements out of the corner of my eyes. I dare not look up. My vision focused on the burgundy fabric, occasionally looking at your finely shined boots as they pass by. Your step is as heavy as your hand on my hip.
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