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| Author | saratoga |
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| Description | Saratoga's essays on Female Dominance in a relationship. |
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| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-09-12 18:44:05 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos feature the incomparably lovely and dominant Lady Asmondena. See her in full fetish regalia- elegant kid gloves, thighboots, corset- visually dominating the camera...and you! Enjoy! |
| Rihanna @ 2008 VMAs- FemDom Or Just Erotic? 2008-09-10 20:51:11 |
Was Rihanna's 2008 VMA appearance FemDom? Or just fetishwear for mainstream viewers? Read my take on this explicit fetishwear event. |
| On The Mechanics of Pussy Power 2008-09-09 16:19:18 |
How much do you know about the World's Most Beautiful Place? This video teaches you, be you male submissive or even an Owner of this fabulous equipment, all about the Female Pussy in a most erotic manner! Enjoy! |
| Reactions to Today's Earlier Post 2008-09-09 16:17:49 |
FemDom emotions incite much passion. Read about the reactions to my earlier post regarding the online Domina with whom I recently ended communications. Both she and her vanilla bf contacted me in the wake of that earlier post. |
| More On FemDomme Society's Tactics To Encourage M 2008-09-08 13:53:27 |
The suspect personals site, FemDomme Society, is at it again. This time, a non-existent reply from me to one Domina merited an email from another on the site ostensibly seeking help and opinions from me. If only I would join the site as a payin |
| Distance, Text & Online Associations 2008-09-08 13:51:56 |
Read about the perils of IM-based "friendships." I recount the birth, development and death of my association with a Domina from another part of the country. Was it a friendship, or just another of her online antics? |
| The Most Beautiful Place 2008-09-07 15:04:22 |
A tribute, visual and verbal, to that most beautiful of all 'places' in the world. At least to a male submissive.... Enjoy! |
| Female Pussy & Ass Worship Is A Global Thing- "Bo 2008-09-06 18:31:39 |
A recently-released, popular film, "Tropic Thunder," contains some unabashed FemDom scenes and themes. But once more, they escaped the censors. Can of "Booty Sweat," anyone? |
| Romance & FemDom Relationships 2008-09-06 18:30:12 |
How does a submissive male pursue and seduce a Domina? How does a Mistress encourage unsolicited acts of romance by Her male submissive? |
| "Mistress" or "Female Owner"- Which Is More Se 2008-09-05 11:58:54 |
Is there a difference connoted by the titles "Mistress" and "Female Owner?" Read my musings, spurred by a reader who is also a FemDom blogger. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-09-04 14:15:03 |
Today's YouTube FemDom video clips all share a theme- mainstream media depiction of Female Dominance. From old, black and white classic cinema with Coop, Neal and Robinson, to Peg Bundy in leather, see these media depictions- some subtle, some no |
| A Year Ago 2008-09-03 12:15:18 |
A year ago, things were very different for my FemDom life. I was still a month away from a reunion with XM for the last active phase of our FemDom relationship. I reflect on that year, and my feelings now about knowing I won't ever be returning t |
| The (FemDom) Summer In Review 2008-09-03 12:13:45 |
It's been a very active FemDom summer for me. In many ways, ironically, perhaps the best of my recent life, despite not having a current, hardcore FemDom relationship. |
| FemDom Rituals: Worshipping At An Altar To Her 2008-09-01 14:53:39 |
An email from a FemDom personals site sparked my consideration of a very passionate, erotic ritual. The erection of an altar to his Mistress by a submissive male. |
| LdyS's 60 Minute Rule 2008-09-01 14:52:00 |
Upon learning of a reader's concerns over the distance her two most interesting male submissives live from her, I was prompted to recall my own limit on geography. Read about my FemDom mentor, LdyS's rule regarding distance and FemDom relationsh |
| Modern Love Notes To D2 2008-08-31 18:55:44 |
D2 is not a personal computer/email Woman. She's a phone/IM person. Read about my daily messages of adoration to my Mistress..and her attitude and comment. |
| A Real Collar from D2 Is Coming 2008-08-31 18:54:15 |
After several conversations about collars, D2 recently indicated that she does want me wearing one while with her. Read about her thoughts on my wearing her collar. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play 2008-08-29 13:21:47 |
Today's FemDom YouTube videos are a mixed group with respect to theme- some boot worship, some pain, some fetish. But all share beautiful, Dominant Women in leather. Enjoy! |
| FemDom Hairstyles? 2008-08-29 13:20:43 |
Is there really such a thing as a dominant Woman's hairstyle? Watch Marina, a/k/a HotForWords, to find out! |
| Weekend FemDom Eye Candy 2008-08-28 19:47:36 |
Some affecting FemDom pictures featuring a two of my personal favorites among erotic fetishes. Enjoy! |
| The Return of MissKat? 2008-08-28 19:45:57 |
One of the Dominas whose info I housecleaned in June has reappeared. Read about MissKat's careful IMs. How she pretends to be uninterested, but just happens to now be contacting me via IM every few days.... |
| Fully FemDom Relationships- Yes or No? 2008-08-27 13:51:17 |
A Domina reader of my blog recently IMd me to discuss FemDom relationship styles. She told me she doesn't foresee having anything close to a 24/7-themed FemDom relationship. She prefers the concept of sceneing, instead. Read my reactions and f |
| Have I Been Collared? 2008-08-27 13:50:10 |
Have I been collared? D2 recently presented me with the gift of a necklace. Read about the feelings her gift elicited in me. |
| Guess Who's Sniffing Around Again? 2008-08-26 16:13:38 |
One of the Dominas whose contact info I deleted earlier this summer is sniffing around again..... |
| Scent Play with D2 & My Clothing 2008-08-26 16:12:15 |
Read about recent scent play with D2 and my cycling clothing. More real-life stories about the power of Female scent on a male submissive. |
| Does D2 Read My Blog? 2008-08-26 16:10:49 |
A reader asked me if D2 reads my blog. Here's my answer, and why.... |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-08-22 16:07:43 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos all share a wonderful theme- male suffering for Female pleasure. Beatings...kicking...whipping...nipple chewing and torture....it's all good! It's all for Female Pleasure brought on by the physical sacrifices of |
| Sexual Retraining By D2 2008-08-21 13:07:19 |
XM, my former Mistress, trained me not to cum in her presence. D2, my current gf/Mistress, finds that undesirable. So she's retraining me. Read about how, and the details of why. |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction: In Her Cock Cage- The Hols 2008-08-20 15:32:58 |
Read part one of my latest in the series of 'In Her CockCage' stories. This time, pony play, spurs and strapons are featured toys! Enjoy! |
| D2's Natural Style of Dominance 2008-08-19 16:48:52 |
D2, my current Mistress/gf, has a very natural, Feminine style of Dominance. She's not harsh, or even explicitly ususally into 'FemDom' things. But her control of me is powerful, just the same. Read about her subtle, but firm FemDom style... |
| XM's Dysfunctionally Selfish FemDom Relationship 2008-08-19 16:46:52 |
From a bevy of Domina friends have come observations on my former FemDom relationship with XM, as well as descriptions of their own FemDom relationships. The result has been a re-evaluation on my part of XM's FemDom style. Which, on reflection, I |
| Collars & Leashes & Boots....Oh My! - Part Two 2008-08-18 12:05:51 |
My new gf/Mistress' experience with bdsm is broader and deeper than I had previously understood. Thus, our discussions about FemDom have grown increasingly frequent and detailed. Read about how many more seriously alternative FemDom activities |
| Another "Small FemDom World" Story 2008-08-18 12:03:26 |
As a result of my recent lunch with a local Pro/Lifestyle Domina, and my post about it, she was contacted by someone asking if I were now her submissive. Read about the little cascade of emails set off by this unexpected instance of the 'small wo |
| A Reader's Enlightening Comment on the FemDomme S 2008-08-16 12:58:43 |
As a sort of public service to other male submissives, I spotlight and paste a reader's warnings from one of my recent posts on The FemDomme Society- a FemDom personals site. While purporting to be a dating site for FemDomers, my reader alleges i |
| Tuesday FemDom Private Video Bonus Clip 2008-08-16 12:57:24 |
To make up for the wimpy nature and quality of 'MissJ's' FemDom videos, I chose two more severe, harsh FemDom whipping and caning video clips for my readers' enjoyment. |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Videos & A Bonus Clip 2008-08-16 12:56:03 |
A mix of FemDom fetish, humor and corporal play comprise today's video choices. Enjoy! |
| Collars & Leashes & Boots....Oh My! - Part One 2008-08-14 13:10:55 |
Last weekend, my gf, D2, and I engaged in a second, impromptu discussion of FemDom in our relationship. Read about how well the talk went, and what it portends for the FemDom future of our developing relationship. |
| Results of Our FemDom Merchandise Poll 2008-08-12 13:11:42 |
I recently polled my readers to assess their interest in buying quality, daily-use merchandise with cool FemDom logos and my blog's URL adorning them. Read about their responses, and the subsequent actions of my graphic-artist reader/friend, who |
| Meeting Lady Samantha 2008-08-12 13:10:03 |
I recently had lunch with a local Pro/lifestyle Domina, Lady Samantha. Read about the context of this meeting, and my impressions of this lifestyle Mistress. And what the future might hold for her, and me, depending upon my future with D2. |
| Some Sex Magick with D2 2008-08-10 17:36:23 |
I had a sleepover/sex date with D2 this past week. Read about her progress in exploring FemDom activities with me, as her willing male object. :) |
| OWK for Sale???!!!!! 2008-08-09 20:01:00 |
Is it true? Is Mecca to FemDom lifestyle couples in Eastern Europe really for sale? Read the details......and maybe plan a stay at the OWK much sooner than you had anticipated...while you still can.... |
| A Sensual Slut 2008-08-08 16:03:52 |
After reflecting on past FemDom involvements, and the activities I share with my current gf, D2, a realization dawned on me. Of all the intimate FemDom play I experience, scent and taste play with my Mistress' Female body is unquestionably the mo |
| A New Link: MadameM's Blog 2008-08-08 16:02:45 |
I describe a new link on my blog- MadameM's decidedly opinionated, often funny site. |
| On Housecleaning & New Domina Relationships 2008-08-07 16:23:52 |
Sometimes you have to clean out the old to get the new! Read about how my recent FemDom involvement/relationship housecleaning of some weeks ago cleared new emotional ground for three promising FemDom involvements. And what my Domina friends ha |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-08-06 13:14:17 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos are all about the boots! Beautiful Mistresses in luxurious, supple, tall black leather boots! And more. Leather coats, pants...and plenty of beautiful, sexy black leather boots. Enjoy! |
| The FemDommeSociety Continues To Watch Me! 2008-08-05 12:18:05 |
Another email from Miss_Amy of the FemDommeSociety. She continues to watch over me, and has now made another generous offer for me to become a lifetime Platinum member. Read more about her offer, and the site's devious marketing practices. |
| A 'Thank You' To LadyL 2008-08-04 16:25:03 |
In years past, I sought only monogamous, exclusive FemDom relationships. Now, thanks to LadyL, I am open to connected, emotionally-bonding, but non-exclusive FemDom involvements. Read my tribute/gratitude to my former Female play partner, and h |
| First Results from "The Talk" with D2 2008-08-04 16:22:56 |
Read about my initial success having 'the talk' about a FemDom lifestyle with my new gf, D2. How she already exhibits signs of sexual dominance in our heated couplings. And what her reaction was to my explicit description of my alternative FemDo |
| FemDom Fiction from The Marquise: "The Goddess Ch 2008-08-03 18:43:57 |
The concluding installment of Marquise's "The Goddess Chronicles"- hot, erotic FemDom Fantasy! |
| Tell Me What You Think- A New Blog-Related Feature 2008-08-03 18:42:28 |
Would you like the opportunity to buy merchandise decorated with cool FemDom graphic art and bearing the URL of your favorite FemDom blog site? Read how you can...... |
| A "Tribute" To MissJ- Part Two 2008-08-02 23:02:07 |
The conclusion of my experience with the online, faux-Domme MissJ. Read my reply to her 'generous offer' of financial submission, and her response. |
| The Freedom of Discipline- Part Two 2008-08-01 19:32:40 |
Following on part one of this topic last week, I share some additional thoughts on how wonderfully unique each person's and FemDom couple's approach to discipline can be. And, yet, how uniformly freeing each approach can be for the submissive ma |
| A "Tribute" To MissJ- Part One 2008-08-01 19:31:08 |
Read part one of my tale involving a "Domina" whom I met on alt.com. What does she want? What does she offer? Was she fully honest up front? |
| Seducing D2 To Dominance 2008-07-31 11:57:45 |
There's been substantial growth in my relationship with D2, my new gf. Read about her decisions to have sex, and her natural proclivities to engage in some s/m play to move things along. Not to mention her delight with receiving 'FemDom' sex |
| Summer Heat, Fun, FemDom (Sex?) Reign! 2008-07-31 11:55:57 |
If winter is the season of slower human activity and sexual interest, what is summer? Read about various comments regarding the rise of male submissive interest in Dominas in the summertime. And its cause.... |
| Tuesday Private FemDom Videos Triple Play 2008-07-30 13:36:49 |
Today's Tuesday FemDom videos are all about golden play and ass worship. Enjoy! |
| New FemDom Involvement Developments 2008-07-29 12:49:54 |
The summer is half-over. And the FemDom fun and action has been hot and constant this year! Read about the goings, and comings/cummings...of my summer so far. New FemDom lifestyle Mistresses to serve, and a very hot, beautiful GF to adore and s |
| FemDom Fiction from The Marquise: "The Goddess Ch 2008-07-28 13:06:29 |
Part Two of my friend The Marquise's erotic FemDom fiction piece, "The Goddess Chronciles." Read a wonderful story about a decadent, omnipotent Female Goddess and male-trainer. |
| The Freedom Of Discipline 2008-07-27 12:00:30 |
What a beautiful apparent contradiction in terms. Discipline, something strict and constraining, can, when executed successfully, set us free. Read how.... |
| Another FemDom Personals Site- FemDommeSociety 2008-07-26 11:58:39 |
There's another FemDom personals site around- FemDommeSociety. I review it in comparison to two old standbys. Plus, I describe the new site's approach to attracting women and males. Has the bottom in ethics and deception finally been reached? |
| Thunder & Lightning...and FemDom 2008-07-25 20:43:58 |
Why do the primitive forces of nature- thunder and lightning- bring images of FemDom activities? |
| I Want To Be In A FemDom Movie.....Sort Of 2008-07-24 12:46:51 |
How might a FemDom relationship be like a movie? Or a series of stills? Read on...... |
| Final Remarks on Housecleaning and Closure 2008-07-24 12:45:11 |
Some final remarks on my recent housecleaning of old, unreliable FemDom contacts, and a recent personal milestone. Specifically, I reconsider the behaviors of a one-time Domina 'friend,' and reassess the outcome of a recent, last chat we shared. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-07-23 16:56:22 |
Today's YouTube FemDom video clips all celebrate thighboots! A triple helping of luscious Female black leather thighboots. And a special, funny bonus clip involving a practicing Pro Domme. Enjoy! |
| Meeting Mistress Amy 2008-07-22 13:54:58 |
I describe my recent brunch with a local lifestyle/Pro Domina, Mistress Amy. Even in just an afternoon, our discussion and her comments provided me with some added insights on my own situation and variant of submissive wiring. |
| FemDom Fiction from The Marquise: "The Goddess Ch 2008-07-22 13:53:47 |
Part one of my friend The Marquise's FemDom fictional tale, "The Goddess Chronicles." |
| The Mistress You Know.....or The Mistress You Have 2008-07-21 12:32:50 |
My former Mistress, XM, clearly laid traps to bring my return to her. But I have a new romantic interest, D2, with whom I am involved. Which to pursue? Is there a difference? If XM could be perverted from vanilla to Mistress, should I still vie |
| Some Closure & More On Non-Cohabitating FemDom Cou 2008-07-21 12:31:03 |
A recent attempt at closure with XM, my former Mistress, resulted in some new insights on co-habitating versus living-apart FemDom partners. |
| It's A Small Small FemDom World After All! 2008-07-19 12:36:48 |
A chance conversation with a blog reader led me back years to my days exploring FemDom on IRC. Read about how closely linked, by degrees of separation, a new reader and I am.... |
| A Reader's Comment On My Alternative Personals Si 2008-07-18 13:44:53 |
A random new reader's location and comments catapult me back to my days on IRC and a friendship with a then-prominent Domina. Read about what a freakishly small, small world FemDom can be. |
| A Domina Reader On Rituals 2008-07-18 13:43:30 |
A Domina reader comments on how my posts concerning rituals have affected her and caused her to reassess their role in her FemDom relationships. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play 2008-07-17 05:59:16 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos all share the theme of foot worship! Enjoy! |
| Why A FemDom Marriage/Co-Habitating Relationship I 2008-07-17 05:57:46 |
What are some of the key differences between a co-habitating or married FemDom relationship and a non-co-habitating one? How can the Domina address these issues? |
| Tastes of a Woman 2008-07-15 13:52:27 |
Read my followup post to an earlier one, "Scents of a Woman." I discuss my feelings during oral body worship of the Female Temple that is my Mistress' corporal form. |
| No "Eye Communication" Part 2 2008-07-15 13:50:40 |
A recent IM chat with a Domina friend opened my eyes wider to an old FemDom dynamic with a former partner, LadyL. Read my further musings on why I don't convey a submissive attitude online, although I am quite so in person with a Domina to whom I |
| How Miss Sarah Recruited Two of Her male submissiv 2008-07-14 02:33:41 |
How do Dominas find new boys? Read about my Texas Domme friend, Miss Sarah. How She recruited/collared two new boys a few years ago. Opportunity- FemDom opportunity- it would seem, is simply where the Mistress finds it..... |
| Shared Attributes Among Three Dominas I Have Known 2008-07-12 22:51:40 |
What is it about one specific locale that three of my FemDom partners have all lived there at one time or another? |
| A Positive Lesson From Online FemDom Personals 2008-07-11 14:19:36 |
It's usually better to just be yourself, and express your limits to a Domina, when appropriate. Read about how my doing so led to being disqualified for a Domme's search for a doormat, but invited to become her friend! |
| An Example From Alt 2008-07-10 02:59:53 |
What's happened to the former main bdsm alternative lifestyles personals site, alt.com? Some recent experiences of mine portray a site in decline. Read more.... |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Videos & A Bonus Clip 2008-07-08 12:51:23 |
Today's YouTube FemDom clips all feature women in boots. For your bootlovers, it's a visual video feast! Bootworship. Lace-up boots being unlaced. Mainstream media women in boots.... Enjoy! |
| Scents of a Woman 2008-07-08 12:49:02 |
For my first 'special to MercyMistress' post, I discuss the beautiful, unique perfumes that emanate from a Female's sacred body. No store-bought fragrance can rival the effects of a Woman's personal bouquets on a willing male submissive. Re |
| Housecleaning Aftermath- A Clarification 2008-07-07 12:01:30 |
A somewhat more upbeat clarification about the recent FemDom housecleaning. And its link to the recent 'no "eye communication" ' post. |
| Housecleaning Aftermath 2008-07-07 11:59:15 |
More than a week after my FemDom (and other) contacts housecleaning, I've had a reaction from one former play partner. And a most decidedly non-reaction from another FemDom friend. Read more about why I culled them and what happened after. |
| Lessons In Online Privacy From D 2008-07-06 12:41:00 |
My recent FemDom dating partner, D, might give you this advice on how to stay private and safe when beginning a new FemDom involvement. Read about her mistakes which revealed her true identity and whereabouts from the very beginning. |
| More Evidence On Hope For Vanilla -> FemDom Marria 2008-07-05 12:42:07 |
A brief post containing a reader's comments about successfully transforming his marriage into a FemDom one from vanilla. Yes, there's hope! |
| A New FemDom Link: "MsReciprocity" 2008-07-05 12:40:39 |
After a long time of merely reading her blog, I've linked to my new friend MsReciprocity's FemDom blog. It's unique and interesting. Hope you enjoy it, too. |
| More Summer Fun- Swimming & Dating 2008-07-04 13:52:17 |
Summer is in full swing, and so are my vanilla and FemDom life components. Read about my aggressive swimming program and my recent leading-to-FemDom date with a delicious, gorgeous Female friend. |
| No Eye Communication..... 2008-07-03 16:31:07 |
Why is online FemDom so different than in person? Is it even worthwhile? Read about how 'eye communication' makes a difference, with help from a 60s pop star- Marianne Faithful. |
| P's Observation on Becoming A Dominatrix 2008-07-03 16:29:18 |
Lest you lament assisting in transforming a vanilla woman into a secure, confident Domina, read about my FemDom blogging friend P's path. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus Clip 2008-07-02 13:11:01 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos all hail from the Czech Republic's Female Queendom, OWK. See boot- and foot-worship focused video action among the Dominant Ladies. Enjoy! |
| FemDom Video Eye Candy 2008-07-02 13:08:59 |
Two shamelessly simple, energetic FemDom video clips. One involves a Mistress toying with Her male's trapped balls, and the other features loving, tender Female Oral worship. Two equally-wonderful ends of the FemDom spectrum. |
| The Way It Should Be- For Consistent male submissi 2008-07-01 12:21:21 |
For consistent male submission, there are a few rituals which are most likely necessary. Based upon another blogger's post, and a Domina's comment thereon, I offer some tips on 'must' behaviors which take no energy on the Mistress' part, but |
| Fear vs. Lust Part 2 2008-07-01 12:19:46 |
I wrote earlier about fear vs. lust in a healthy FemDom relationship. What happens when the two become disconnected? Read on.... |
| You Cannot Make This Stuff Up....Another FemDom Da 2008-06-30 17:18:09 |
Recently, I broke up with what seemed to be a promising, over time, budding FemDom involvement with a lady named "D." Imagine my surprise when I suddenly discovered/realized this weekend that another Domme on an alternative dating site was, in f |
| It Takes Two - On FemDom Relationships 2008-06-30 17:16:12 |
A reader lamented that I am constantly running afoul of poseurs and faux-Dommes. He thought I must be getting tired of it. On the contrary, FemDom dating is an adventure. Read why.....it takes two! |
| What's Abnormal In A Relationship or Marriage? 2008-06-29 14:15:25 |
Another FemDom blogger, P's, post on what mainstream psychology considers abnormal, led me to offer my own reflections on the subject. And to ask, which is preferable- a dysfunctional vanilla marriage that is dying, or a vibrant, decidedly erotic |
| Summer Fun & Cleaning House 2008-06-29 14:12:57 |
Summer's here! My life changes as more of it moves outdoors to the cycling roads and swimming pool. In the process, I cleaned house of old contacts- vanilla and FemDom. Read who's in, who's out, and why. And what's ahead in my already-bu |
| Dominating Your Cable Guy....and Other Stories 2008-06-28 17:17:48 |
It's a common FemDom fantasy story- a Woman dominates the cable guy during a repair call. Except this time, it's for real. Read about my Domme friend's sudden and unexpected acquisition of a new worshipper and weekend date. What happened |
| A New FemDom Link: MercyMistress 2008-06-28 17:15:46 |
I've added a new link on my blog. Mistress Amy, a local lifestyle and Pro Mistress, has opened a personal website. Among other things, She allows video content which would be objectionable on YouTube, but her site loads faster than FetishPal. |
| A Pro Domme on Full Toilet Play 2008-06-27 12:34:54 |
Full toilet FemDom play certainly isn't for anyone. Reading a Pro Domme's explanation of what it does for Her, I reflected on the deeper, symbolic and emotional aspects of this rare and taboo FemDom activity. Could I do it? Why would I want t |
| As The FemDom World Turns......New Opportunities! 2008-06-27 12:33:19 |
Even in the wake of D's departure, I find two new local FemDom opportunities. Read about a Pro contacting me for personal reasons, and my old friend MissKat also reconnecting to play. |
| "I Kissed A Girl and I Liked It....." : Closure 2008-06-26 14:55:31 |
Read about how another blogger's personal issues with her own sexual orientation resulted in her flirtation with, then rejection of my male submission and blog. Some alternative lifestyle choices can be successfully introduced into a marriage. |
| Fetish Pal Tuesday FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus Cl 2008-06-25 10:33:53 |
Today's FetishPal FemDom video clips no doubt justify my blog's warning screen. Extreme whipping, Female body worship, strapon play....and more! Enjoy! and revel in the extremism of FemDom play! |
| D's Dominance Through Feeding 2008-06-24 12:44:27 |
Read about how D dominated me subtly but purposefully through her use of food on our recent dinner date. |
| Another FemDom Personals Site Story: MsChrissy 2008-06-24 12:42:46 |
Another humorous story from my FemDom dating experiences. Why do some Dominas feel that they can dominate you in an intial chat session? |
| Fear vs. Lust 2008-06-23 12:03:29 |
How are fear and lust related in an alternative FemDom relationship? Read my reflections on these two critical, indispensible, yet linked emotions in a male submissive relating to his Dominatrix. |
| D as Wicked Wanda? 2008-06-23 12:01:18 |
Could my new Mistress D BE Wicked Wanda? With Her statuesque bearing and height, midnight black hair and trim, muscular physique, I consider how it would/will be to be ruled by a live version of the famous comic Domina. |
| Recalling Wicked Wanda! 2008-06-22 14:39:53 |
From the dim mists of the 1970s and the musty pages of Penthouse come.... Oh, Wicked Wanda! A recent IM chat reminded me of this influential FemDom comic Heroine of old. Read about Her and the world Her creators built that influenced so many yo |
| How Well D Already Knows me 2008-06-22 14:37:52 |
Reflecting on a post I wrote, a reader's comment, and D's email to me about his comment, I offer evidence of how D is already working to get inside my submissive head. Read D's insightful assessment of my blogging and submission, and how it por |
| How Can I Improve D's Life Right Now? 2008-06-21 11:58:01 |
FemDom relationships are all about how a male submissive may improve his Domina's life. How can I improve D's life right now, given our locations, situations, constraints, etc? Read my thoughts about this important facet of any alternative Fe |
| A Next FemDom (Weekend Overnight) Date with D 2008-06-21 11:56:42 |
Lucky me! Read about D's command that I attend to her for an overnight date next weekend! |
| How a FemDom Ritual Dies- Part Two: Journaling 2008-06-20 14:49:19 |
More thoughts on how FemDom rituals die, and the consequences of their death. XM, my former Mistress, had several electronic message-oriented rituals in force. But were they really serving to bond me to Her? Why did She not notice and punish their |
| More On The Nature of The Other World Kingdom 2008-06-20 14:47:59 |
More evidence from the OWK on just exactly what it is- FemDom dungeon or FemSupreme's real operating FemDom resort? |
| FetishPal Tuesday FemDom Videos: FemDom Puppy Trai 2008-06-19 15:36:15 |
Today's FemDom video is a long puppy training clip from FetishPal. See a very sexily-attired Mistress train Her human male puppy in this 8 minute clip. She works on fetching, handshakes, and other pet behaviors. Enjoy! |
| ...And A Surprise For D 2008-06-18 06:02:43 |
D's visual surprise for me inspired me to reciprocate! Read and see how- what secret did I reveal to D and my readers, based on Her sexy visual gift? |
| A Surprise Gift from D 2008-06-18 06:00:08 |
A funny IM accident eventually led to D giving me a surprise visual gift- actually several- last Sunday. Read what they were....and see one of them! |
| Why FemDom Rituals?- Part Two 2008-06-17 12:16:07 |
In this post, I probe in more detail the emotional and psychological effects of FemDom rituals on the male submissive. It's so much more than physically training Her male when a Mistress prescribes protocols and ritual behavior for Her boy. Re |
| My Local BDSM Munch Group Becomes A FemDom Group 2008-06-17 12:13:32 |
Is FemDom on the rise? My local pan-sexual alternative lifestyle munch and play group is now virtually exclusively FemDom! Read about my meeting with the head of the local munch, and discovery of a ready group of other FemDom couples with whom to mee |
| A Second Date with D 2008-06-16 12:53:16 |
I recently had a second, dinner date with the lovely D. She enjoyed an erotic FemDom dinner. Actually, we both did! Read what happened in public that made it so sexy and FemDomish. |
| Milking Her male slave 2008-06-15 11:28:19 |
There are various ways for a Mistress to milk Her male property. Read about an easier way for Mistress to perform this task. And why some Mistresses refuse to do it at all! |
| More On FemDom Rituals, Consistent Dominance & mal 2008-06-15 11:26:10 |
More thoughts on rituals as a vital part of a FemDom relationship. Read how this important alternative component of a FemDom relationship actually help a Woman to dominate all the time, whether she feels up to it, or not. |
| On Online Assocations, Credibility & Influence 2008-06-14 11:58:29 |
Some more thoughts, from a greater time period, of my split with a non-FemDom blogger a few months ago. Centering on the inability to verify who she really was/is, I contrast her protestations of 'friendship' with the views of a good Domina acqu |
| Michelle, "Mistress V" & Online Personae 2008-06-14 11:56:43 |
A once-popular FemDom blogger, MistressV, uses her latest blog post to explain her life and how her 'dominance' was a lie. Interesting reading about an online persona and how verification is lacking when the medium is just cyberia. |
| Why FemDom Rituals? 2008-06-13 12:53:36 |
Why are rituals an important part of a committed FemDom relationship? Read my thoughts on why these practices are vital for the health of an alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship. |
| Odds & Ends 2008-06-13 12:51:53 |
I realized recently that I'm still either using or have in my possession some items left over from my relationship with XM, my now-departed Mistress. Read about my actions to cleanse from these items, and how this signifies further distancing fro |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-06-12 12:39:57 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos are a tribute to OWK's Madame Sarka. The Queendom's famously beautiful, spoilt and whimsical Madame is featured being served, adored, attended to and worshipped by her male consorts. Plus a funny bonus clip abou |
| How a FemDom Ritual Dies- Part One: Greeting 2008-06-11 14:02:54 |
FemDom rituals can constitute and important part of an alternative FemDom relationship, and their practice can bring major reinforcement to each partner's role in the relationship. How does a ritual 'die?' For example, the ritual greeting of th |
| The Consequences of My IRC FemDom Roots 2008-06-11 14:01:08 |
Why is online 'domination' so different from the in-person variety? And why do my IRC roots in FemDom make me such a bad distance/remote submissive? |
| FemDom Strapon Play and male cum-eating 2008-06-10 05:49:14 |
Mistress Cheyenne and her Domina friend take a male in the ass in this provocative, exciting FetishPal video. Enjoy! |
| To Live A Near-Total 24/7 Alternative FemDom Lifes 2008-06-09 06:01:33 |
Could I really live a 24/7-governed alternative FemDom relationship with a Mistress with whom I did not cohabitate? WHen XM asked me, I said 'no,' but, in reality, I knew the answer was 'yes.' Why? And how would this occur? |
| Compelled To Be Hers 2008-06-08 05:22:11 |
Why do some Dominas inspire submission and heartfelt surrender from males, while others can't hold onto theirs? Read my thoughts on what makes the crucial difference.... |
| Why Did I Stay So Long with XM? 2008-06-07 06:27:59 |
In response to a reader's comments, I reflect on why I stayed for so long, off and on again, with my former Mistress, XM. Why did I? Can I explain the reason? And is it defensible and sensible? |
| About Recent Events, D & XM 2008-06-07 06:26:17 |
Is writing to reflect on the lessons of a now-ended FemDom relationship bad? Is it comparison of the past with the present, or future? Or simply the necessary processing of experiences into new knowledge? |
| D's Method of Control 2008-06-06 12:08:00 |
My recent date and prospective new Mistress, D, uses some fairly simple but incredibly effective means to control communication with me. Within days of meeting her, she had changed my habits and had me in training to obey her communications protoc |
| What Accounts For Success In Finding a New Mistres 2008-06-06 12:06:03 |
Reading of another, often single and whining, male blogger's recent date, I began to wonder why he and I have had such different FemDom experiences. Why do some submissives seem to never meet a Domina in person, while others have a fairly full da |
| On FemDom Relationships & The Fit of The Domina an 2008-06-05 14:10:24 |
What happens when a Domina's style and manner of dominance doesn't mesh with what keeps Her boy under control? Disaster! Read about how important it is for the styles of dominance and submission of a FemDom couple's partners need to mesh. |
| A Wonderful First FemDom Date 2008-06-05 14:07:40 |
I describe an incredibly affecting first FemDom date with D. For a woman who has never practiced explicit Female Dominance in a relationship before, she seems extraordinarily gifted in the art... |
| Tuesday Fetishpal FemDom Videos: Is This Caring Fe 2008-06-04 12:16:33 |
Todays FemDom videos are 'smoking hot!' Yes, Dominas using cigarettes in their domination of their male property. So, which is more humane and caring FemDom- second hand smoke, or a burning cigarette? Enjoy! |
| More On Complex Female Wiring & FemDom 2008-06-04 12:14:30 |
One of my readers, a fellow blogger, wrote a comment and post conveying his absolute belief that women, in general, are sexually submissive. His post was even highlighted on this site! I offer a counter-argument. Sure, there aer plenty of dominant |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction: Replacing Her Pet 2008-06-03 12:02:38 |
Based upon my ex-Mistress' experience with Her own pet, I offer a short piece of FemDom fantasy about what can happen when a Mistress loses one cherished pet.....and takes another. |
| Online Personae 2008-06-03 12:00:57 |
Some thoughts about people's online personae on Second Life. I've experienced online- IRC, personals, blogs- for years, involving FemDom. But what I saw on a recent news report blew me away.... |
| If You Want a male submissive, Get A Dog, or, Cat 2008-06-02 12:05:19 |
What is it about Dominas and dogs? Most Dominas of my acquaintance have dogs, not cats. I offer some thoughts on why dogs provide Dominas with the tools and understanding to transfer to their males as to the benefits and possibilities of training |
| Why FemDom Works..... 2008-06-01 05:10:49 |
One of the now-offline Mistress V's funnier posts. I "borrowed" a humorous piece She also borrowed. But I go on to discuss the reality beneath the humor. How I explained this to XM in one of our very first discussions. |
| Nice Work If You Can Get It 2008-06-01 05:09:15 |
I found a recent online FemDom personal that cracked me up. Does anyone actually respond to something like this? |
| My Last Split from XM: Why It's Different 2008-05-31 17:16:47 |
I've broken up with my ex-Mistress, XM, literally more times than I can count. At least once a year for nearly 6 years. Why is this last parting the 'final' one? What's different about it, and what can other Dominas and subs learn from it? |
| Holiday Visitors 2008-05-31 17:15:24 |
Who visits FemDom blogs on those long holiday weekends? Do the vistor numbers rise, or fall? Why? |
| Online FemDom Personals: The Case of DominaA 2008-05-30 11:39:06 |
Why does a hot-looking 27yo Domina reply to a middle-aged, experienced male submissive on an alternative dating site? Why does she communicate with him for a week without explaining her process for considering him to serve her? More online hila |
| Another Odd FemDom Dating Story 2008-05-30 11:37:10 |
Have you ever been serially contacted by the same person on different online personals sites? My story of the woman who both re-contacted me, and then, the second time, as a Domina, behaved bizarrely. Read about this online contact farce! |
| YouTube Tuesday Animated FemDom Video Triple Play 2008-05-29 13:21:32 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos feature animes engaging in verbal humiliation of males. Plus a special bonus clip from mainstream movies. Enjoy! |
| Memorial Day Weekend- New Patterns 2008-05-29 13:20:15 |
The holiday weekend brought new patterns in the wake of my split from XM. |
| Wired for FemDom? The Case of XM's Dual Circuitry 2008-05-28 05:04:03 |
My ex-Mistress, XM, exhibited periods of legitimate, serious FemDom behavior. And other periods of nearly vanilla behavior. Is she, or is she not, wired for FemDom? Or can someone be wired in more than one way, with external stimuli, like stress, |
| Too Much Dessert- FemDom S/M Without the D/s 2008-05-27 13:21:54 |
A diet of pure dessert is unhealthy for your body. A FemDom relationship of all s/m play and no dominance is unhealthy for your emotional well-being. Read about how obscene and repugnant fetish play with a Mistress' beautiful leather gloves an |
| Bodytalk: The Hidden Prices We Pay 2008-05-27 13:19:34 |
During my last active phase with XM, several minor physical conditions began to manifest themselves more clearly. Read about how, within two weeks of XM's departure, several of my health issues magically reversed. Clearly, stress of a bad FemDom rel |
| Recent & Upcoming FemDom Activities 2008-05-27 13:18:05 |
Despite my recent split from my former Mistress, XM, I already have upcoming playdate opportunities. Domestic service, ass worship, and more. Read about my developing FemDom life after XM. |
| The Last Time I Felt Fear...... 2008-05-26 05:50:40 |
Following on my recent post regarding the necessity of healthy fear by a male submissive of his Domina's whims and demands, I examine my own fear, or lack thereof, in my recently-ended FemDom relationship with XM. |
| Who Goes There- FemDom or Not? 2008-05-26 05:47:38 |
Why do non-FemDom practitioners or want-to-be's read a FemDom blog? What does it mean when a non-Dominant woman reads, comments on and becomes friendly with me, a FemDom blogger? What does her reluctance to move beyond emails and chatting, yet |
| Mistress...The Fear Has Gone Out of Our FemDom Rel 2008-05-25 14:14:04 |
Fear is an essential element of a successful, healthy alternative FemDom relationship. Why? Read my thoughts on why, without fear, a FemDom relationship is really nothing more than a vanilla one with kinky play. To really affect, train and own a m |
| Renewed Energy 2008-05-25 14:12:05 |
My recent release from XM, my FemDom relationship partner of some years, has given me renewed energy. Read about how aligning one's feelings and the knowledge of a relationship's reality can free the spirit to create anew! |
| Female Ownership of Her Relationship with a male 2008-05-24 15:09:58 |
Sparked by a fellow FemDom blogger's post, I discuss how and why a Domina needs to 'own' Her alternative FemDom relationship with Her boy. Relationships need care and maintenance and a FemDom one is no different. Read why.... |
| Space Dominas Review From Teri 2008-05-24 15:08:24 |
My fellow blogger Teri of Bootlovers.com provided a link to a wonderful review of FemDom and evil Dominas in film, brought on by the current Indiana Jones release. |
| An Alternative FemSupreme Lifestyle Relationship E 2008-05-23 12:01:28 |
A fellow FemDom blogger, Mistress Milliscent, provided an intial view of a FemSupreme relationship. Corporal discipline is a must. I reflect on Her post, and the wisdom and necessity of strict, firm and omnipresent beatings of the male to remind h |
| A Review of the FemDom Movie "Submission" 2008-05-23 11:59:33 |
A week or so ago I mentioned having found the movie "Submission." Today's post delivers my review of this FemDom-oriented movie. Is it 'must see,' or just 'let it be?' Read to find out! |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-05-22 12:28:52 |
Today's FemDom video clips are all about the boots. Boot worship and sexy OTK boots are featured, plus a very funny, vintage commercial with a FemDom twist. Enjoy! |
| A View of a FemDom Marriage: Carmen Rivera 2008-05-22 12:26:27 |
A Domina often associated with the OWK, Carmen Rivera, provides Her view of a FemSupreme marriage. After reading the lyrics, I offer some comments on how, at a younger age, I could have complied with these. And why her ideas would provide for a harmo |
| FemSupreme- Short & Very Sweet 2008-05-21 11:41:41 |
A very simple view of a FemSupreme relationship voiced by a fellow FemDom blogger- "obey or leave." I examine how this offer, stripping a FemDom/Supreme relationship to its essence, is a wonderful thing. And would have been, in my case, an ap |
| Some Initial Reflections After XM's Final Departu 2008-05-21 11:39:22 |
In reflecting on my recent and final breakup with my Mistress, XM, I provide some insights into the dynamics of a dying FemDom relationship. Because of her and my long involvement, the end probably looks different than you may imagine. Read more t |
| HotForWords: Mistress & Sexy Teacher 2008-05-20 13:37:28 |
Marina, a/k/a HotForWords, the Russian emigre philologist whose speciality is etymology, appears in two FemDom-related videos. She explains the origin of the word "Mistress," and participates as a School Teacher in a wonderfully funny music paro |
| "By The Time She Gets To Phoenix......" 2008-05-20 13:35:44 |
My sometime FemDom partner for over five years, XM, finally leaves again. Read about her latest departure, why it is a final one, and what it has begun to teach me about FemDom relationships. |
| How Pussy Power Influences male Risk Taking Behavi 2008-05-19 05:41:22 |
I've always believed that classical FemDom imagery and dress- leather, boots, gloves, etc.- contribute to a male's ability to endure more suffering, punishment and risky submissive behavior for his Domina. Now, from Stanford University comes imp |
| Another FemDom Movie- "Submission" 2008-05-19 05:39:15 |
I came across a reference to yet another recent FemDom movie. Originally ntitled "Submission LA," this film has some major actors and actresses and an intriguing trailer. A review will follow. |
| .....Sweet About Me 2008-05-18 12:08:35 |
The new, rising Australian singer Gabrielle Cilmi has a video of Her first single, "Sweet about Me." See if you don't agree this is a Woman with a FemDom spirit and style. |
| A New FemDom Link: "Submitting To Her" 2008-05-18 12:07:06 |
Among the blogs I read, a new one, "Submitting To Her," has become a favorite. Read why. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-05-17 12:38:30 |
YouTube Tuesday's FemDom video clips are (mostly) about the boots. Dominas in black leather boots..some thighboots, some knee. And a hilarious bonus clip. Enjoy! |
| "The End" of MistressV 2008-05-17 12:36:41 |
A last post from the Woman once known as MistressV. After She pulled down Her blog a few weeks ago, Her fate was unknown. Now She makes a last statement, pregnant with advice and warning.... |
| Another Take On "....But Is It FemDom?" 2008-05-15 13:58:12 |
What's the difference between a vanilla foot massage of a wife's feet by her husband, and a FemDom scene of a Mistress' feet being worshipped and massaged by Her boy? Read my reflections on how to distinguish the two, and why. Plus a lot more s |
| A FemDom Fantasy Story: Piper's male Sex Harem- C 2008-05-14 15:39:08 |
The conclusion of my 3-part FemDom fantasy tale of my fellow blogger, Piper's, use and abuse of 10 male submissives recruited to be her sex slaves for a long afternoon. |
| And For A Parting Gift....I Got "Green Bags" 2008-05-13 13:10:39 |
A longtime fellow blogger, reader and friend recently quit her association with me. She de-linked my blog and removed me from her IM list. Why? Good question, but another one is why she read my blog so diligently in the first place, as she is a se |
| On FemDom Lifestyles & Simplistic Attribution 2008-05-13 13:08:40 |
Why do so many people make attributions of sexual/lifestyle choices based purely upon public behavior? I elaborate upon my response to a reader's comment that stereotyped people who agree with the premise of a moview which I recently reviewed. |
| Projecting One's Own Alternative Lifestyle Orient 2008-05-12 12:00:21 |
How do our own wirings for submission, or vanilla, affect our reactions to reading about FemDom? Do some people unwittingly project their anxieties and problems onto and into others' situations? How does this affect the comments you read on Fe |
| A Strange Post from 'MistressV?' 2008-05-11 15:03:50 |
Another chapter in the odd saga of MistressV's blog. Weeks after her last bona fide entry, another posting appears with a message..... |
| Modifying XM's New Spurs 2008-05-11 15:01:40 |
After some field testing of XM's new spurs, they were found wanting. Consequently, I modified them to fit an underchain to secure the rowels to Her bootheel, as shown in the accompanying video. Good technical advice for the boot-and-spur FemDo |
| A Degrading FemDom Fantasy: Boot Worship with A Tw 2008-05-10 05:27:04 |
I found a very alluring boot worship video on fetish pal recently. But far from being normal, it combined very hot elements of Lesbian FemDom, boot worship, and a sort of cuckoldry. Read more about this hot clip and what it led me to fantasize |
| Fetish Pal Tuesday On Wednesday FemDom Triple Play 2008-05-09 05:18:47 |
With Fetish Pal's return to operation, I republished my first FemDom Video Tuesday post. View erotic videos of booted Females being worshipped, and a very visceral facesitting scene. Enjoy! |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-05-08 05:20:18 |
Today's YouTube FemDom video clips cover a variety of topics. Some are humorous, some devoted worship, and some serious equestrienne play. Enjoy! |
| Chastity and 'Going Soft' 2008-05-07 11:03:12 |
A reader's IMs involving chastity and sexual drives led me to reflect on long term effects of using chastity devices. Does a male's cock still get erect, or so some just 'go soft?' Does it have to do with submissive wiring? |
| A FemDom Fantasy Story: Piper's male sex harem- P 2008-05-06 05:15:57 |
Part two of my FemDom fantasy story involving a fellow blogger/friend, Piper. Though not a Female Dominant, Piper commented about having a harem of males to service her Here is part two, wherein Piper gets her wish..... |
| An Unlikely Approach To Feeding FemDom Style 2008-05-05 12:23:32 |
A recent posting to a FemDom board involved a rather peculiar combination of anal worship, full toilet, and slave feeding. Read about this alleged practice, and my comments on it. |
| Cosmic FemDom 2008-05-04 17:26:51 |
False-color nebula pictures can provide many shapes and colors which suggest items in our lives. See what happens when I 'lense' these astronomical objects thru a FemDom perspective. |
| The Strange Case of The Vanished Mistress V: An Ad 2008-05-04 17:25:07 |
Some added news on the disappearance of Arizona Pro Domme Mistress V. Does her houseboy's message make sense? Or his he in denial about her having left and awakened to some new reality? |
| Mistress V's Last Post 2008-05-03 13:55:15 |
Cyberia is a weird place. Read about the mysterious last post fragment of Mistress V, and her blog's sudden disappearance. What happened to her? Where is she? Will we ever hear from her again? Or did she experience some sort of transformation fro |
| On The Limits of Pussy Power: Consensual male subm 2008-05-02 11:42:56 |
Does every woman enjoy Pussy Power over every male? Even online? How would that work? Why would Females assume that they can exercise their gender's power outside of intimate relationships, or even outside of physical relationships? Read more |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-05-01 12:31:00 |
Today's YouTube FemDom video clips have two major themes. One is that of mainstream media entertainment performances of Women using FemDom imagery, dress and lyrics. The other is Dominas feeding their males in erotic, edgy ways. Enjoy! |
| Benefits of a FemDom Home Fitness Center 2008-04-30 05:08:13 |
Ever wonder why it would be useful to have an extensive home gym/fitness center? Perhaps so that your Domina can use it to train you in ways you've never considered before. Read about how a home fitness center could enhance the physical and me |
| A FemDom Fantasy Story: Piper's male sex harem- P 2008-04-29 12:53:57 |
Based upon a reader's comment on one of my earlier posts, I developed this FemDom fantasy story. Part one of Piper's male sex slave harem, wherein a non-FemDom Woman uses the submissive wiring of a stable of males to fulfill her sexual fantasies |
| The Evolution Of FemDom Resources: From Paper To B 2008-04-28 11:54:26 |
FemDom blogs are sprouting up everywhere. Real Dominas and male submissives write about sexual servitude, training, pet play, cuckolding, and more. Does anyone need to buy FemDom books anymore? Read about the progression from print to near-real |
| Introducing FemDom Into A Vanilla Marriage- A Read 2008-04-27 13:42:40 |
A reader's comments on one of my recent post brings news of the successful conversion of a vanilla marriage to a FemDom one. Read about another reinforcing example of how and why this can happen in real life! |
| On The Apocryphal 10:1 male submissive:Domina Rati 2008-04-26 05:12:26 |
Is there really a 10:1 ratio of male submissives to Female Dominants? Read about my inquiry into this age-old bit of apocrypha. |
| Weekend FemDom Play- Part Two 2008-04-25 11:24:11 |
XM and I saw 2 movies last weekend. Read about the movies and our FemDom fun in the theaters, too. |
| Fetish Pal Tuesday Extreme FemDom Videos Triple Pl 2008-04-24 05:10:42 |
Tuesday's FemDom videos are from Fetish Pal and are more extreme than usual. See hard whipping, breath play, spitting, trampling, and one of the most severe whipping scenes ever! |
| Weekend FemDom Play- Part One 2008-04-23 05:16:08 |
XM used and abused me in Her classic FemDom way last weekend. Read about FemDom sex, Her way. |
| Lucy Lawless In Stunning Black Leather Gloves 2008-04-22 12:03:15 |
Lucy Lawless gives an interview in stunning black matte-and-patent kid gloves! Awesome! |
| Ooops! Everyone Makes Mistakes! 2008-04-22 12:01:47 |
My Mistress corrects me! Apparently a picture about which I waxed eloquently in a prior post was not about golden play. Find out what it really was! And how I feel about the image now. |
| More On Blogger's New Warning Screen On This Blog 2008-04-21 05:06:20 |
Read about Blogger's new campaign against alternative lifestyle blogs! Why was mine suddenly categorized as 'adult,' with an 'objectionable content' screen placed in front of access to the blog's content page? Who might have 'flagged' t |
| An Affecting FemDom Picture 2008-04-20 12:22:08 |
I describe, in detail, what it is about a beautiful image of FemDom Golden play that affects me so. |
| XM's male slave Stable 2008-04-19 14:23:56 |
Read about my Mistress, XM's recent pining for a slave stable. And my thoughts about the realities of a choosey Mistress recruiting, training and operating a stable of male slaves to serve Her. Along with opinions on the matter from my online bloggi |
| Alternative FemDom Lifestyles & Mainstream Media 2008-04-18 05:07:21 |
Is it realistic to ever hope that FemDom lifestyles can break into mainstream society? Or should we be glad it never will? Read my reflection on this topic. |
| Good Goddess, I Object!!!!!!! 2008-04-18 05:05:05 |
Someone found my thoughtful musings about FemDom lifestyles offensive. And they flagged my blog, so it now has a warning page! Read more about how much more offensive it could have been this week! |
| More On Moving A Marriage From Vanilla To FemDom/B 2008-04-17 05:05:06 |
Responding to a friend and fellow-blogger's comments, I re-examine the issue of a male submissive introducing Female Dominance to his as-yet-vanilla Female marriage/relationship partner. Is it ever fair for either partner to ask of/present to the |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-04-16 05:11:34 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos feature mainstream media depictions of FemDom. Some are humorous, some tasteless, and most simply misunderstand and lampoon the lifestyle. Sadly, this is what we're up against. A little reminder of why it's so hard |
| More on Cuckolding, Polyamory, Oxytocin & Female O 2008-04-15 12:51:20 |
With several FemDom blogs focusing on cuckoldry and poly, I revisit how the Female chemical oxytocin, a/k/a 'the bonding chemical,' may affect the 'success' of these sexual adventures, and the relationships/marriages within which they exist. D |
| Half A Million (FemDom) Visits! 2008-04-15 12:49:12 |
This FemDom blog has reached the half million visits mark! Read about why it attracts readers, and what it strives to provide to lifestyle FemDom couples everywhere. |
| A FemDom Fantasy Party Game 2008-04-14 11:52:12 |
Returning to a recent video post, I write about a FemDom fantasy party game- male ballsac tug-of-war! Readers comment on having seen actual games in person. And I discuss the degradation, humiliation and thrill of a Mistress training Her boy to be |
| In Conclusion About Rika 2008-04-13 13:19:57 |
Read my, and some of my regular readers' comments on the result of my posting of Rika's comment about my earlier posts concerning her writings. Rika never did respond, as she promised, with some information about her submissive stable. My reader |
| Playing Nina's Memoir Game 2008-04-13 13:18:31 |
Nina invited me to play a fun meme game. The object is to express your life in six words. Very revealing. Want to read mine? |
| FemDom Accessories: Some Details on Spurs 2008-04-12 11:48:36 |
Some technical notes on spur play. It's not enough to just buy a shiny, decorative pair of spurs for Mistress to use on her male's body or for pony play. For practical usage, spurs should have both straps and a good chain under the boot's inste |
| A Recent FemDom Movie Night with XM 2008-04-11 05:17:18 |
Read about my recent 'FemDom night at the movies' with XM! Once again, She and I take to the public theatres to see good film and enjoy some FemDom leather, glove and male ravishment play.! |
| Rika Visits & Comments- and I Reply- Part Two: Rik 2008-04-10 12:26:53 |
The conclusion of my two-part reply to FemDom webmistress/authoress Rika's recent comments on my blog post about her writings. What are Rika's 4 non-husband submissives like? How about her non-husband, live-in submissive? Are they males of power |
| Tuesday Extreme FemDom Video Triple Play 2008-04-09 05:10:30 |
This Tuesday's FemDom video clips come from my private 'collection.' They are on the extreme side, and not for the faint of heart. See severe whipping of males by Mistresses, and a storied male tug-o-war contest. A type about which you may have |
| Rika Visits & Comments- And I Reply- Part One 2008-04-08 05:09:29 |
A slightly-known online Domina whose FemDom website claims I discussed visited and left a comment. Read part one of my point by point reply. |
| Explaining- Or Trying To- The Magic & Mystery of F 2008-04-07 11:51:16 |
In response to two comments on my recent two-year blog anniversary, I attempt to explain...again...the magic and mystery of a loving alternative FemDom relationship. |
| Comments From An Emerging Domina 2008-04-06 19:20:25 |
I explore selected aspects of FemDom, including online-based FemDom and FemDom for a newly-experimenting couple, in response to two recent comments. |
| A Recent Evening's FemDom Play with XM 2008-04-05 17:39:58 |
A description of a recent evening's FemDom play with my Mistress, XM. Body worship, leather, boots, a crop, all figure in this recounting of an erotic FemDom night! |
| Another "Pages Read" Milestone 2008-04-05 17:38:39 |
I noted the passage of another milestone on my FemDom blog. |
| Simple Foot Worship of My Mistress 2008-04-04 05:03:15 |
Last weekend I gave my Mistress, XM, a heartfelt, devoted and passionate dose of foot worship. Read about my oral cleaning of Her freshly-exercised, hot and aromatic, damp feet. FemDom foot worship at its best! |
| Virtual Golden Play- FemDom Style 2008-04-03 05:03:48 |
Read about the amazing, FemDom-oriented new Wii controllers and software games! Now a Mistress can practice FemDom activities like golden play, strapon, and facesitting in the privacy of Her own home.... |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-04-02 05:45:01 |
Holy OWK! Look what I found! This Tuesday's YouTube FemDom video clips feature OWK videos from which some very famous pictures were taken. The theme is boot worship- aplenty. Muddy boots, smeared boots, ketchup-stained boots. Thigh boots! I |
| Scents and Sensibility- FemDom Style 2008-04-01 13:34:31 |
If a FemDom couple already has routinely experienced and shared golden play and ass worship, how extreme is the step to Her exposing Her boy to Her body's gaseous emissions? More on scents and the sensibility of taking this next step in humbling |
| More on Scent, Dating and FemDom 2008-03-31 11:34:06 |
Thanks to reader comments, I found a site with pictures of the scent connection device XM and I recently saw in a museum exhibit. In this post, I reprint some of the accompanying research into human sexuality and scent. Fascinating work and findin |
| Reconnecting with XM FemDom Style 2008-03-30 11:32:03 |
XM and I reconnected after a long time between FemDom play. Read about our toyless night and day of steamy, sensual FemDom sex and play. |
| Second Anniversary Blog Post 2008-03-30 11:30:20 |
On the second anniversary of my FemDom blog, I review some of my goals, blog stats, and topics covered in those two years. Erotic FemDom pictures, a video, and some special thanks to special Females are included. |
| "Going Under" Meets The Real World- My IM Chat w 2008-03-29 12:48:32 |
A reader recently messaged me with questions about using a humbler in the presence of his Mistress. One thing led to another, and soon I was confronted with the real version of the FemDom movie which I recently reviewed, "Going Under." Read m |
| Thighboot (FemDom) Fashion At The Metropolitan Mus 2008-03-28 10:59:01 |
Seeing Teri, of Bootlovers, noting two pairs of fetish thighboots at the NYC Met Museum, I dug further to present them to my readers. Read about and see pictures of these awesome, vintage thigh boots- one red, one black- now on exhibit! |
| Housekeeping Changes 2008-03-28 10:57:38 |
An announcement of some link changes and new feeds on the blog, to better serve my FemDom-oriented readers. |
| Review of FemDom Movie "Going Under" 2008-03-27 13:59:58 |
Today's post reviews the FemDom-oriented 2004 movie "Going Under." What happens when a married therapist becomes obsessed with his Pro Dominatrix? What happens when they continue their professional relationship after she leaves the business? |
| Fetish Pal FemDom Videos Tuesday Triple Play 2008-03-26 04:26:41 |
Today's FemDom videos hail from my new favorite source, Fetish Pal. All three, together, span a wide range of FemDom action- bootworship, faceslapping, spitting, facesitting, trampling. Gorgeous Mistresses meting out harsh, beautiful disciplin |
| A Fantasy Chastity Toy 2008-03-25 04:13:11 |
Thanks to an IM chat with a reader, I explore broader ideas about male chastity. Specifically, a fantasy idea for chastity-related inspections and Female oversight. |
| An Honest Approach To Sex 2008-03-24 12:22:03 |
Another FemDom blogger wrote recently about her quandry regarding male sexual advances. My thoughts on a Domina's rare approach to a complicated sexual situation. |
| Health Care Costs To Skyrocket From New FemDom Med 2008-03-23 20:04:46 |
Building on a FemDom board post, I consider some novel aspects of male chastity. What if it were an insured health condition? What might US FemDom relationships and chastity play look like if your medical plan covered chastity devices and mandator |
| Good Friday Humor- FemDom Style 2008-03-23 20:03:39 |
A slightly irreverent religious joke with a Good Friday/Easter theme. |
| 20 Questions- FemDom Style- Returns 2008-03-22 16:54:40 |
Can you guess the FemDom object I've chosen? Before the 20 Questions game can? |
| Extremism In The Name of BDSM 2008-03-22 16:52:41 |
When is electro-play over the edge extreme? Can it be when the sub has a metal plate inside her? |
| Another Domina Votes Against Chastity Devices 2008-03-21 04:06:35 |
Having found another FemDom blogger's post about male chastity devices, I reference Her hilarious piece. Mistress Leesa's tale of chastity toys is very revealing and funny. Based upon her comments, I expand upon my own thoughts on this perennial |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-03-20 04:09:31 |
This Tuesday's YouTube FemDom videos continue the theme that it's "all about the (thigh)boots!" Female celebrities in thighboots entertain us...it's an erotic trend, and a welcome one! Enjoy! |
| The Association Between Chastity & Cuckolding 2008-03-19 10:53:23 |
What is the link between male chastity and cuckolding in a FemDom relationship? Does chastity usually lead to cuckoldry? Does cuckoldry more or less require the submissive's chastity? |
| Cuckoldry Cleanup Duty & Fluffing 2008-03-18 04:31:43 |
Some observations on how common the activities of fluffing a male and cleaning up his Mistress' used, cum-filled Pussy are for male submissives in a cuckold FemDom relationship. How do these activities affect the male submissive and his Domina? |
| Some Thoughts on Self-Respect In A male submissive 2008-03-17 10:56:53 |
Is there room for self-respect in a male submissive in a FemDom relationship? Should his Domme have sufficient respect for him to make him presentable in public? Read my thoughts on another male submissive's experiences out in public with his |
| On So-Called male 'doms' from Mistress V 2008-03-16 04:23:05 |
Building on an excellent post by Mistress V discussing how so-called male 'doms' come on to her, either to get her to submit, or to offer to submit to her, I offer some further thoughts. Why do males behave with an imperiousness absent from most |
| Some Thoughts on male Slave Stables & Dominas As M 2008-03-15 03:32:35 |
If part of the FemDom bargain involves a male becoming enslaved in exchange for his Domina taking responsibility for his welfare and development, whether as Her chattel or a person, how does a Mistress handle this important task for Her entire stable |
| Affecting FemDom Images 2008-03-13 12:16:34 |
I offer some affecting FemDom imagery that gets me hot. Reminds me of actual playtimes with Female Partners. Seeing these pictures reinforces my yearning to submit, and my submissive wiring. Enjoy! |
| Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play- and a Bonus 2008-03-12 05:09:23 |
This Tuesday's FemDom video clips feature three from a new source. This network leaves erotic FemDom videos up without censorship. The first three videos star well-known Ladies of the OWK dishing out pain and humiliation to their male slaves. |
| More Comments on Rika 2008-03-11 03:55:08 |
Some recent readers' comments on my second post regarding Rika triggered some further thoughts of my own. I consider contexts and objectives of males who can, and cannot, or will not, for example, be slaves in a stable of a married Domina. |
| On Doing 'Unwanted' Things for One's Mistress 2008-03-10 01:40:14 |
When does obedience become too much? Is it healthy to serve a Domina Who demands obedience on acts which continually repulse Her male? Is there a line between obedience and being in the wrong FemDom relationship? |
| More On Scent, Human Mating and Female Dominance 2008-03-08 13:06:35 |
A recent museum exhibit reinforced XM's and my findings of how important it is for a submissive male to bond to and dose with his Mistress' scents and flavors. Read about the erotic display we found recently.... |
| Live For The Moment...or Two 2008-03-08 12:46:16 |
Unplug once in a while...read about next week's posting schedule and see some erotic FemDom pictures as well. |
| Last Week's FemDom Booty Call 2008-03-07 11:41:19 |
Last week XM summoned me for a 'FemDom quickie' session of worshipping Her boots. Read more... |
| Post Script on "Strictly Female" Blog 2008-03-06 13:42:26 |
A comment on briefly-published FemDom blog and its aftermath. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-03-05 11:51:53 |
This week's YouTube FemDom Tuesday Triple Play is all about Females in boots. Glossy boots- zippered boots- closeups of boots- ballet boots. Enjoy! |
| About Rika- Part Two 2008-03-04 12:08:20 |
My concluding thoughts about Rika's style and approach to publishing on FemDom lifestyles, versus a more wide-ranging one that surveys different styles. |
| Another Novel Chastity Device- The "Sperm Stopper 2008-03-03 12:33:56 |
Yet another type of male chastity and cock-control device was brought to my attention by a kind reader. Discover the 'sperm stopper' family of male chastity devices..... |
| A FemDom Movie Worth Checking Out- "Going Under" 2008-03-02 21:44:34 |
Informatin and video clips from YouTube concerning a 2004 FemDom-oriented movie entitled "Going Under!" |
| Becky Quick's Well-Worn Leather Boots 2008-03-02 21:42:40 |
Watching CNBC Female co-anchor Becky Quick wear Her black leather knee-length boots 4 days of the past week got me thinking about the intensity of Female foot aroma mixed with leather scent. What if Becky has a submissive and he is allowed to snif |
| The Saverball Chastity Device 2008-03-01 05:18:45 |
Read about another type of chastity device- the saverball! |
| About Rika- What's Uniquely Different? 2008-02-29 11:46:15 |
Yet another online 'expert' Mistress has written a book! Some reflections on what is 'unique' about Rika, and how to interpret her style, among other FemDom relationship/marriage lifestyles. |
| Another Comment on male Chastity 2008-02-28 12:25:49 |
In response to many new comments on older chastity posts, I resurrect, as it were, this familiar topic with some new information and thoughts. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-02-27 05:48:31 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos share a common theme- foot worship! See all kinds of sexy, devoted worship of the Female foot....enjoy! |
| On Edge Play & Contexts 2008-02-26 05:12:53 |
Having read a fellow blogger's post on wanting edge play with his Domina, I offer some thoughts on his observations. Specifically that 'you can't live there,' referring to edge play. And in what contexts you can even go there. |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction from The Marquise: Dogs Din 2008-02-25 11:44:04 |
The concluding part of Marquise's wonderful FemDom fantasy tale, 'Dogs Dinner.' |
| On The Lighter FemDom Side.... 2008-02-25 11:42:44 |
A recent Dilbert comic provides some perspective on pain play, harsh, cruel Dominas, and discipline. |
| Punishment & Pain- Just Because 2008-02-24 05:08:30 |
Can constant chastity and pain via constant punishment lead to a loving FemDom relationship? Read my thoughts on one Domina's severe, constant punishment of Her husband via corporal and chastity. |
| De-Linking To Bridgette's "Strictly Female" Blo 2008-02-23 14:54:08 |
Some thoughts on a FemDom blog gone private...and off my link list. |
| On The Relationship Between Female Domination and 2008-02-22 11:56:28 |
Is Female Domination about sex? Or not? I explore this oft-mentioned topic using personal experiences. |
| FemDom Movie: Walk All Over Me 2008-02-21 12:35:02 |
A discussion of the recently-released movie with an explicit portrayal of a Pro Domme and a Pro wannabe, "Walk All Over Me." |
| Our V-Day (FemDomish) Dinner Out 2008-02-20 12:50:37 |
Read about how XM spiced up our V-Day dinner out with some FemDom and fetish touches! |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play: All Abou 2008-02-19 12:12:24 |
A combination posting of YouTube FemDom videos of Female celebrities, and the fourth post in the 'all about the (thigh) boots' series. Video clips showcase Female singers in thighboots. What's with this appealing, erotic trend? Enjoy! |
| Cuckolding & Female Orgasms 2008-02-18 12:15:59 |
Some questions about FemDom cuckolding, in light of research on how sex and certain chemical releases by a Woman's brain affect Her bond with Her male lover. |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction from The Marquise: Dogs Din 2008-02-17 18:11:30 |
Part Two of The Marquise's splendid tale of a Mistress bringing a new male into Her dominant grasp. She begins his in-person seduction at a rather erotic, exotic and special dinner..and they are not alone! |
| A New Link: Teri's "Booted Up" 2008-02-17 18:09:47 |
I've added a new link- (Boot) Lady Teri's blog, "Booted Up." For all your boot and glove fetish image and video needs. |
| On Becoming One With A male's Mistress' Orgasm 2008-02-16 16:15:49 |
What does it mean for a submissive male to 'become one' with his Mistress' Female sexuality, and experience it through Her? My reflections on another blogger's ideas along these lines. |
| Valentine's Day FemDom Haiku 2008-02-15 05:08:45 |
FemDom haiku for my Mistress to celebrate V-day. |
| On Valentine's Day For FemDom Relationships 2008-02-15 05:07:27 |
Some thoughts on the relevance of this "greeting card holiday" for vanillas to a commited, alternative FemDom couple. |
| All About The (Thigh) Boots- Three 2008-02-14 05:06:13 |
Adding to my growing list of posts about Women's thigh-high boots, this piece discusses Nina's comments on my recent post about them. In it, Nina shares a real story of her own public thigh-boot experience. And I further describe, with XM's hel |
| Tuesday Triple Play FemDom Video Clips 2008-02-13 13:52:39 |
A triple FemDom video clip Tuesday! Today's theme is FemDom sex. Facesitting & loving strapon play. |
| A Relaxing FemDom Friday Evening 2008-02-12 12:24:39 |
XM in leather dress, gloves and boots. I'm healthy and have energy for the first time in weeks. Read about our romantic, Femdomly-erotic get together Friday night! Boots..spurs..more boots...leather gloves..groping male body parts...and nipple |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction from The Marquise: Dogs Din 2008-02-11 11:49:32 |
Part of of my friend The Marquise's FemDom tale of objectification and humbling of a male by his new Mistress. Read the first installment of "Dog's Dinner." |
| Boot-Feeding A male slave 2008-02-10 12:51:57 |
Sparked by an erotic FemDom slave-feeding picture, I discuss a particular method of how a Mistress can boot-feed Her slave. It's possibly the most demeaning, bonding approach for a Mistress to control Her slave's nourishment that I can imagine.. |
| FemDom Sex, XM, and Bridgette 2008-02-09 15:35:55 |
Is chastity the only way for a Mistress to focus Her boy's sexual attention on Her? Or are there other ways? And what about near-permanent chastity? Is it truly possible? Does it work? Some reflections from my Mistress' and my discussions of |
| XM's FemDom SuperBowl Evening 2008-02-09 15:34:47 |
Read about how my Mistress and I spent the evening watching the SuperBowl. |
| All About The (Thigh) Boots- Two 2008-02-08 05:28:44 |
A recent photo spread featuring a Female celebrity wearing shiny black OTK boots, and commenting on how they made Her feel, triggered this post. What is it about over-the-knee/thighboots that awakens the confidence and naughtiness in almost any Wo |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Video Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-02-07 12:15:09 |
YouTube FemDom videos sharing the theme of..... ballbusting! And a funny bonus clip, too. |
| But Is It FemDom? Amp Energy Drink SuperBowl Ad 2008-02-06 12:57:06 |
Is this ad from the Superbowl game FemDom? Or merely a hint at bdsm? |
| Reflecting On A Passage From Marquise's "Snout M 2008-02-05 13:32:24 |
Reflections on a particularly poignant passage from Marquise's "Snout Mask Replica." Is living in only the present, as a pet must do, truly the key to happiness for the male submissive? Does abject submission to his Mistress give him this ab |
| Degrading Female Boot Worship- Aroma Therapy 2008-02-04 13:36:14 |
Recently, my FemDom play with XM afforded me the opportunity to deeply inhale Her just-worn leather boots and their unique aroma of Her foot perspiration mixed with the leather. Read about XM's reaction to my degrading boot worship, and my own fe |
| A FemDom Saturday Morning- Part Two 2008-02-03 15:54:41 |
Part two of a recent Saturday morning's FemDom play. XM gets down and anal with me, thoroughly taking my ass in a prolonged training exercise..... |
| A New Link: Strictly Female 2008-02-02 14:58:59 |
A survery of posts from a new FemDom link on my blog! |
| On Blogging About FemDom Play & Sex Details 2008-02-01 05:09:23 |
Some reflections on how intimate details of FemDom play aren't quite the same thing as intimate details of sex on sex blogs. How FemDom contexts differ, and what that provides in a blog. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus 2008-01-31 05:04:51 |
Today's YouTube FemDom videos all feature The Catwoman, in honor of Piper's recent engagement announcement. All three terrific Felines are represented- Julie Newmar, Eartha Kitt, and Lee Meriwether. Hissss!!!!! & Enjoy! |
| Another Bonus YouTube FemDom Catwoman Video Clip 2008-01-31 05:03:13 |
A luscious, public humiliation and corporal discipline FemDom clip from YouTube. This one features Lee Meriwether, from the 1966 Batman movie, as The Catwoman. Purrrfect! |
| A FemDom Saturday Morning- Part One 2008-01-30 13:18:05 |
How a recent, innocent, sleepy Saturday morning in bed became a rousing FemDom sexcapade! Read about XM's Female imperiousness and my humble sexual worship of Her cleft....and more.... |
| FemDom Tales From The Marquise: Snout Mask Replica 2008-01-29 05:02:53 |
The exciting, erotic conclusion of The Marquise's superb FemDom fantasy tale, "Snout Mask Replica." |
| Recent Reader's IMs 2008-01-28 12:09:55 |
Two FemDom couples recently IM'd me to discuss my blog and their own activities. Read about two hot, erotic FemDom couples. What the Mistress' do. How Their male husbands serve them. In one case, what deviant plans the Mistress has for Her subhu |
| The New Spur Straps Have Arrived! 2008-01-28 12:08:21 |
XM's new tack arrived already! I give a review of one online tack supplier and reiterate my findings concerning online suppliers. |
| A View From The Outside: XM's Persistent Suitor 2008-01-27 14:26:50 |
I ponder what XM's still-persistent suitor from Her online FemDom personal ad must think. She recently provided him with the URL to my blog, and he replied to Her. Some thoughts on new male submissives jumping into the 'deep end' of the FemD |
| Tack Suppliers for FemDom Play 2008-01-27 14:24:53 |
Tired of paying exhorbitant prices for whips, crops and pony tack equipment so that Mistress may ride Her human pony? I provides some online, less expensive, real tack shop sources for Equestrienne Domme tack. |
| A Recent FemDom Morning 2008-01-26 14:16:13 |
XM enjoyed several explosive orgasms on a recent morning. Then engaged in training my ass as She employed Her 'FemDom69' position. |
| Erin Burnett In Leather 2008-01-26 14:14:41 |
A celebrity fetishwear sighting! Erin Burnett of CNBC in leather! |
| Tuesday Triple Play FemDom Videos & A Bonus 2008-01-25 11:39:14 |
It's FemDom Triple Play Tuesday! See three private, intense FemDom video clips of Dominas taking Their males in the ass. And more! Spitting....sweaty foot worship......Enjoy! |
| FemDom Movie Night with Peekaboo slave top 2008-01-24 15:38:12 |
XM and I recently had another "FemDom movie night" out. Read about how she ravaged my body while enjoying the film! |
| FemDom Tales From The Marquise: Snout Mask Replica 2008-01-23 11:46:22 |
Part two (of three), illustrated, of The Marquise's erotic story of male objectification by the Female, Snout Mask Replica. |
| Return of an Old FemDom Link- Adam's FemDom Illus 2008-01-22 11:31:47 |
Announcing the return of an old, beloved FemDom link. adam's website of wonderful FemDom pictures is baaaack! |
| Unique Alternative FemDom Relationships & Marriage 2008-01-22 11:30:13 |
An exploration of how important context is when applying one FemDom couple's rules and concepts to your own situation. |
| A Belated FemDom Christmas Dinner- Part Two 2008-01-21 13:03:24 |
Part two of my description of an intimate, erotic post-Christmas dinner and play evening with XM. |
| Dynamics of the Surprise FemDom "Quickie" 2008-01-21 13:01:19 |
Some thoughts about why XM's new "FemDom Quickie" short play visits during the day affect me so. How is it different than more formal, arranged FemDom play? Read and find out! |
| All About The (Thigh) Boots 2008-01-19 15:21:13 |
XM's comments on the joy and security that comes from wearing Her thigh-high leather boots. |
| Non-Consensual Anal Play & Penetration 2008-01-19 15:20:06 |
A funny real story from the AP newswire on non-consensual anal play, so to speak.... |
| "Breakfast" In Bed, FemDom Style 2008-01-18 05:06:25 |
XM gives me 'breakfast in bed.' See what she put on my menu that morning.... |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play & a Bonus 2008-01-17 05:12:23 |
It's YouTube FemDom Video Tuesday. And this week, it's all about the boots. Lady Teri's, of course! The BootMistress of Bootlovers.com . |
| Piper's Moving!- A New Link: Babylon Visited 2008-01-17 05:10:36 |
A collection of Piper-related information. My blogging friend Piper has: added/moved to a new blog; given me another 'Piper' award for my 2007 writing, and; I posted several of her favorite character's pics. |
| XM's Remaining Christmas Gift 2008-01-16 12:54:56 |
XM opened Her last Christmas gift. It's pure FemDom pleasure...Read on.... |
| FemDom Tales From The Marquise: Snout Mask Replica 2008-01-15 14:03:42 |
Part one of The Marquise's superb FemDom Fantasy story, Snout Mask Replica. It has extreme objectification, cages, dog costumes, shiny boots, gloves and leather! A FemDom fetishists' delight! |
| How I Could (Still) Become A Cuckold- Part Two 2008-01-14 12:25:14 |
A third post regarding this always controversial FemDom practice. In this piece, I discuss how, with XM, in the future, I might still become Her willing cuckold. What would be the context and reasons? Read on.... |
| Another FemDom "Booty" Call 2008-01-13 05:18:11 |
XM makes another FemDom 'booty call' to use me on short notice. Read about Her latest FemDom quickie with me. |
| A Misleading Post From Afar 2008-01-13 05:16:42 |
Some thoughts on another blogger's perspective on my blog. And reflections on how context affects attitude. |
| Last Weekend's FemDom Christmas Dinner & More 2008-01-12 05:04:02 |
XM and I had a wonderfully intimate FemDom dinner. Read about the romantic, if unusual, manner in which I ate. And some of our after-dinner FemDom play. |
| A New PlayStyle: The Midday FemDom "Quickie" 2008-01-11 11:32:34 |
As a result of recent posts concerning workday rituals to reinforce a FemDom bond between a couple, XM began engaging me in "FemDom quickies." Read about our fun, invigorating, spontaneous new FemDom playstyle. |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Triple Play 2008-01-10 11:56:01 |
Boot worship aplenty in today's FemDom video clips from YouTube. And a bonus clip featuring a Hollywood actress in a very funny sendup of a popular Feminist anthem. |
| XM's Equestrienne Christmas: Ride 'Em CowGirl! 2008-01-09 05:03:31 |
XM finally opened Her FemDom Christmas gifts from me. See what new toys and accessories She now has with which to play and train me. |
| FemDom Tales From The Marquise: Empress of the Fie 2008-01-08 12:02:26 |
The conclusion of The Marquise's wonderful, erotic FemDom tale, Empress of the Fields. |
| Re-Linking To Pussy Worship 2008-01-08 12:01:17 |
After a long dry spell, Her of Pussy Worship, a FemDom blog, is posting again. I've re-linked to it. |
| Communications, Connections, Context, Consistency 2008-01-07 13:08:59 |
In response to various recent posts and comments on my and other FemDom blogs, XM issued some instructions. We had some misunderstanding regarding timing. Thus, context and consistency are important in communications between FemDom partners. I exp |
| More On Prolonged Dry Spells- Ideas For Getting Th 2008-01-06 13:25:01 |
More than a dozen little ways to say "I dominate you" by the Woman in a boy' life. In response to Her's quest for ways to remain connected to Her sub/hub throught a workweek, I have more than a dozen ideas that will make him think of Her throu |
| How I Could Have Become A Cuckold 2008-01-05 05:12:21 |
Having fenced with an anonymous commentor on a recent cuckolding-related post, I elected to consider what would have led to my being a willing and eager cuckold. That process of personal examination is the core of the post- If I'm not a willing c |
| On (Prolonged) Dry Spells In A FemDom Relationship 2008-01-04 05:03:38 |
A post by another FemDom blogger on their FemDom marriage and recent dry spells of play prompted me to reflect on XM's and my various similar situations over the past several years. How we cope with FemDom droughts...and how acceptance plays a pa |
| Another New Year's Day FemDom Video 2008-01-03 05:11:46 |
Goddess Gabrielle produced an erotic, luscious FemDom New Year's Eve video for YouTube. It has sensuous leather boots, crop, and a crawling slave. Happy FemDom New Year! |
| Tuesday FemDom Videos: Happy New Year!!! 2008-01-02 05:08:59 |
New Year's Day is a Tuesday! So here are three FemDom New Year's Day video clips in keeping with a classic theme. See male asses 'spanked,' like the 'spanking' new year, and Female asses worshipped with fervor and ardor by adoring male tongu |
| Links, Lifestyles, Abuse & FemDom Blogs 2008-01-01 15:46:39 |
Some thoughts about passages on another FemDom blog, and the comment one of them provoked. How do you consider blog content purporting to describe non-consensual D/s activities involving a minor? |
| FemDom Tales from The Marquise: Empress of the Fie 2007-12-31 20:46:57 |
Part two of The Marquise's erotic FemDom fiction piece, Empress of the Fields. |
| Another YouTube Christmas FemDom Video 2007-12-30 12:51:53 |
I found this on a fellow blogger's site and wanted to assure its wider distribution. Enjoy! And if Santa looks like this, I may be staying up with milk and cookies for Her next year! |
| Dominant Females, Natural Selection and "Flauntin 2007-12-29 16:00:35 |
A closer look at the difference between Females Who merely flirt, and dominant Ones Who "flaunt." A deeper investigation into the meanings of the word flaunt, and how it perfectly describes the Domina's attitude. |
| More On Natural Selection 2007-12-28 14:00:50 |
IMs from a male 'dominant' sparked me to revisit a prior post on FemDom and 'natural selection.' More evidence that the natural order for homo sapiens is Female dominance of the relationship. |
| Christmas Turkey & Post-Christmas FemDom Plans 2007-12-27 11:31:27 |
A little bit about my Christmas holiday and upcoming kinky, FemDomish plans with XM. |
| Is It Cuckolding, Or What? 2007-12-26 13:27:10 |
A reflection on the physical process of cuckolding, versus its intent. Beginning with another blogger's description of his wife's new focus on cuckoldry, I inquire, for myself, what are hallmarks of a Woman's behavior that suggest cuckolding fo |
| Christmas Day FemDom Video Double Play 2007-12-25 13:25:52 |
Tuesday's FemDom Video clips include a close-up of a Mistress gifting Her slave with Her golden champagne, and a fun little segment by Ms. Moon, dressed as a sort of Santa, playing with Her boy. Merry Christmas! |
| FemDom Tales from The Marquise: Empress of the Fie 2007-12-24 11:11:38 |
With Her permission, part one of one of The Marquise's FemDom stories, "Empress of the Fields." |
| Vintage FemDom Material 2007-12-23 11:51:51 |
A reader asked me about the origin of some recent video clips. His question, and our chat, led me on a walk down FemDom memory lane. Read more about the reappearance of Mistress Connie. |
| A New Link: Marriage Paradise 2007-12-23 11:49:55 |
I've added a new link to another FemDom blog. Kim and Ken write a blog as steamy and hot as the Florida location in which it takes place. Lisa, Kim's lesbian sub/gf, is also a regular character. Read about their outrageous games and activitie |
| Repo Gurrrl 2007-12-22 11:31:51 |
After a stressful week apart, XM 're-possesses' me in bed one night this week. Read about Her animalistic reclaiming of Her male property and territory. |
| A Complicated FemDom Situation 2007-12-21 11:11:43 |
My head still spins from this uber complex FemDom situation in the making. A reader IMd me with the particulars of Her FemDom-to-be relationship. Can it get more complex than this? Real life can be so much stranger than fiction! |
| More On Contexts of male Submission In A FemDom Re 2007-12-20 13:04:27 |
More reflections on the internal mental and emotional states of a male before surrender to his Mistress can occur. |
| Stories From The Marquise 2007-12-20 13:02:28 |
News on upcoming FemDom stories from The Marquise. She's a fabulous British FemDom and fiction writer. Learn what's in store! |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Triple Play 2007-12-19 11:43:23 |
Three YouTube FemDom videos with the incomparable Miss Sara Akeera. She discusses her dominance in two interview clips which intersperse scenes of her Pro Domme sessions. The last clip is raw, edgy full-on human male pony play, with Miss Akeera drawi |
| More Reflections on the Interplay of FemDom Time & 2007-12-18 13:59:37 |
Reflections on the interplay of a deep interpersonal hetero relationship which features FemDom themes and dynamics. It isn't always all play and leather. How does it work, when XM and I don't play deeply for a while? |
| FemDom Story: The Branding of Mine (Part 2) 2007-12-17 11:48:37 |
Part 2 of the story, "The Branding of Mine." A FemDom tale of branding of a male as his Mistress' property, then celebratory sex...Her way! |
| Recent Positive IMs From Blog Readers 2007-12-17 11:47:26 |
Comments from readers on the blog and its effect on their FemDom relationships. |
| On FemDom Lifestyles and Natural Selection 2007-12-16 13:44:23 |
Is FemDom 'the' natural lifestyle for our species? Mistress Ashlee weighs in with her video clip opining on 'natural selection' and FemDom. And I offer my own thoughts on her commentary. |
| Sunday FemDom Play with XM 2007-12-15 15:16:20 |
A glimpse of XM's and my delightfully erotic play last weekend. Boot worship, erotic play by Her with my body in the new slave suit, and more.... |
| Tuesday Video Clip FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus 2007-12-14 11:57:11 |
This Tuesday's FemDom video clips are raw, uncensored, totally explicit FemDom action! Pussy worship....ass worship...CBT....vigorous anal reaming of a male by his Mistress' hard black cock....and pony riding! Enjoy! |
| On Commercializing New FemDom Toys & Clothing 2007-12-14 11:55:37 |
Why doesn't anyone seem to get wealthy marketing FemDom fetish/toy items? XM and I have had some interesting recent product ideas. Here's why it won't matter. |
| On "Personalized," Custom-Casted Female Cocks 2007-12-13 12:04:33 |
Due to XM's dominant sexual proclivities, we have begun musing about personalized male cock replicas. Read about why, and what fun a Mistress could have with Her slave, and others, with this sort of toy. |
| FemDom Story: The Branding of Mine (Part 1) 2007-12-11 13:18:36 |
A FemDom story, perhaps true, recounting the branding of a boy by his Mistress, and the beginning of Her post-marking play activities with Her newly-modified slave. |
| Change of Plans & A Long, Late Morning 2007-12-10 16:09:32 |
A change of Saturday plans finds XM lingering in bed, the recipient of multiple orgasms and breakfast in bed. The Administratix of pain and discipline. |
| Hot 'n Heavy 2007-12-09 16:46:41 |
A recent morning's hot 'n heavy FemDom play- CBT, nipple torture, golden play....spontaneous, intense, loving FemDom play with XM. |
| Progress On male slave Winter Play Clothing 2007-12-08 17:01:23 |
I've made progress on modifying clothing for use as a winter weather slave's uniform for XM's convenience. Read how our plans for creating a total-access slave uniform have been implemented. |
| XM's Impassioned Nipple Training Continues 2007-12-07 12:01:27 |
XM's training of my nipples continues unabated. Her sheer passion at keeping my nipples 'crusty' and attempting to heal is discussed. |
| Tuesday Triple Play YouTube FemDom Videos- and a B 2007-12-06 14:50:43 |
The first three of today's YouTube FemDom video clips involve interviews with Pro Dommes. One is a matter-of-fact discussion of various basic aspects of pro FemDom. The next two are parts of fairly well-known talk show's sweeps week program. For |
| Recent FemDom Wintersex with XM! 2007-12-05 14:34:11 |
Recent hot, steamy winter morning's FemDom sex with XM. Pain. Female orgasms. Anal rape of a male. Lots more pain.....what's not to love? |
| Why Do You Suppose? 2007-12-04 12:24:21 |
Some thoughts and questions about why some non-FemDom bloggers persist in their obsession with bloggers who actually live an alternative FemDom lifestyle. Are they sick, or what? |
| A Curious Benefit of FemDom Associations In Cyberi 2007-12-03 13:45:09 |
We all know about the downsides of cyberia- the partial, hidden, often misleading identities. But here are some thoughts on the upsides, the benefits, of cyberian assocations between bloggers! |
| Summersex, Wintersex...Any Season Sex... 2007-12-02 14:30:25 |
Thoughts on how seasons and their temperatures can influence and affect alternative FemDom play, including FemDom sex. XM and I discuss some of our evolving ideas for solutions to season-limited FemDom play. |
| XM's Comments On Being A Bitchy Domina 2007-12-01 15:10:54 |
Some comments from XM on being a "Bitchy" Leather Domme. And our discussion of whether such a Persona could actually last in a long term, alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship. |
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| Fetishwear on CNBC: Erin Burnett's Leather Jacket 2007-11-30 11:15:29 |
Some observations on another celebrity fetishwear sighting- CNBC's gorgeous Erin Burnett in leather! On set! |
| The Missing Mistress Prima YouTube Video!!! 2007-11-29 15:00:22 |
Another YouTube, totally FemDom video which I lost. Then a reader found it and IMed me with the URL. Enjoy Mistress Prima taking Her sissy boy out for a McDonalds hamburger....which he eats in a decidedly unusual way! |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus Clip 2007-11-29 14:58:55 |
More YouTube FemDom videos. This post's selections focus on ardent boot worship of Mistress' boots by Their devoted slaves. |
| More Reflections On Anger In A FemDom Relationship 2007-11-28 14:34:51 |
In response to another blogger's comments on some long-ago posts of mine regarding anger in an alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship, I have some additional reflections on the topic. Among them- differences between emotions such as disappoint |
| A Fine FemDom Romance 2007-11-27 14:57:09 |
Some thoughts on the need for Female seduction of the male in a FemDom relationship. More than just transitioning between activities during the day, I muse about how being seduced by my Partners Femaleness eases and facilitates my slide into submi |
| FemDom Relationship Nuances 2007-11-26 12:04:36 |
Some thoughts on the blended alternative FemDom lifestyle that XM and I share. Some things aren't as FemDom as you might expect. Others, perhaps moreso....it's reality, not fantasy. |
| The Ever-Popular "FemDom Online Community" Conce 2007-11-25 11:13:21 |
Some thoughts on cyber-FemDom, FemDom blogs, and whether there can be an online 'community.' Sparked by a post by a fellow FemDom blogger, I revisit an old spat, and muse on the nature of online FemDom associations between bloggers. |
| FemDom 20 Questions 2007-11-24 11:57:35 |
Can you guess the FemDom topic I've chosen? Before the handheld 20Q game can? |
| Post-Pony Harness Nighttime Play with XM 2007-11-23 12:58:14 |
Details of a steamy, pan-FemDom activity play night and morning recently with XM. |
| Another FemDom Party Idea & Some New Toys 2007-11-22 11:51:09 |
My Mistress, XM, and I have come up with another idea for finding private FemDom parties/couples in our area. Becoming excited by the prospect, XM went shopping for more leather clothes, and some new toys. Very affecting new toys..as I describe... |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus Clip 2007-11-21 11:20:26 |
Today's YouTube FemDom clips have a common theme- pony play! Gorgeous Females, most in fetish wear and boots, putting their horses through their paces. And a bonus clip which demonstrates the difference between loving FemDom D/s, and mere s/m. |
| Catching Up: Recent FemDom Play with XM 2007-11-20 12:34:20 |
XM and I finally had a few light play dates this past week. Including celebrating Her birthday with some serious FemDom sex. |
| Cate Blanchett's "The Gift" 2007-11-20 12:32:40 |
After seeing Cate Blanchett in Elizabeth, The Golden Age, recently, with my Mistress, XM, I noticed this movie. Here, Blanchett stars in a little jewel of a film. My review.... |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction: The Penectomy (Edited): Pa 2007-11-19 11:28:43 |
Part 2 of a FemDom fictional account of a male undergoing a penectomy. FemDom power, male sacrfice, and FemDom sex....fantastic fantasy! |
| FemDom Relationships, Paid "Training" Mistresses 2007-11-18 12:50:53 |
How does one reconcile the intimacy of a FemDom alternative lifestyle couple with some women offering to 'train' males and teach them how to introduce their Female partners to a FemDom lifestyle relationship? |
| Fine-Tuning Schedules and FemDom Relationship Goal 2007-11-17 10:48:02 |
A discussion of the dynamics and evolution of my real life FemDom relationship with XM. We recently had a thorough discussion of schedules and activities, changing some things which weren't meeting our expectations, as well as sharing thoughts on ho |
| Some Questions Concerning US Gender Trends in Educ 2007-11-16 11:56:49 |
Another FemDom blogger found a YouTube video celebrating the rise in society of Female power, symbolized by the alleged superiority of Females in US universities. I deliberate on this contention, discussing what may be occurring that makes some of |
| Surreal FemDom Experiences: Strange IMs From The B 2007-11-15 12:30:14 |
I've been getting some strange IMs on Yahoo lately from my blog...and others' blogs. Plus some other odd conversations... |
| Tuesday YouTube FemDom Triple Play & A Bonus Clip 2007-11-14 11:45:06 |
Today's YouTube FemDom video clips feature a single theme- Boots! Women in either black, or white, thigh high, stiletto-heeled boots. Exclusively. A boot-fetish festival of Booted Females. Enjoy! |
| Elizabeth, Queen of England 2007-11-13 14:39:41 |
Read about another FemDom night at the movies with XM. This time, She chose an ultimate FemSupreme Chick Flick- Elizabeth, The Golden Age..... |
| FemDom Fantasy Fiction: The Penectomy (Edited): Pa 2007-11-12 11:47:52 |
Part one of a FemDom fantasy story involving a Domme, a FemDom resort, and the subject of penectomies...... |
| Body Modifications for submissive males- More Thou 2007-11-11 12:22:01 |
More thoughts on body modification of the male submissive- especially the penectomy. What would it change? How might I feel toward my Domina, if She had me undergo this procedure? |
| Body Modifications for submissive males 2007-11-10 15:52:01 |
Beginning with my recent thoughts about a metal ballsac stretcher, from my recent 20Q game, I muse about FemDom body modifications of the male submissive. My thoughts end up at a rather edgy place- penectomies! Part one of a series of posts on the |
| Thursday FemDom 20Questions 2007-11-09 11:46:31 |
Can you guess the FemDom item I've chosen? Before the handheld 20Q game does? |
| Fall Is Here- Females In Boots 2007-11-08 13:30:34 |
Fall has come to the northern hemisphere. Women are suddenly everywhere in leather- boots, gloves, jackets, etc. Even prominent TV personalities are sporting more leather, such as shiny black boots on Female news anchors. Symbols of Female Powe |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play- And a Bonus 2007-11-07 11:56:18 |
YouTube FemDom videos predominantly featuring face slapping. Whether in alluring fetish attire or simple everyday clothes, Women face slapping Their males. And a special surprise bonus FemDom clip which clearly portrays Female Dominance and sexual pr |
| Context, Communications and FemDom Play 2007-11-06 13:03:48 |
Some observations on the real-world contexts of attempting to recently set and have a formal FemDom play date with XM. |
| FemDom Marriage- A Report From a Regular Reader 2007-11-05 17:51:07 |
Some interesting comments and questions from a regular reader. The male half of an educated, athletic young FemDom couple, he had some different perspectives and questions than have been normal for me for sometime. |
| FemDom Parties: A New Solution 2007-11-04 17:46:43 |
XM and I develop some new, easier solutions for the dilemma of how to reduce the risk in meeting and playing alongside other FemDom couples, as we discuss prospectively building a small social group of like-minded, alternative FemDom lifestyle couple |
| Al Gore Rumored To Visit The OWK???!!!! 2007-11-03 15:11:56 |
Read this totally baseless, unconfirmed, alleged account of why Al Gore loves the OWK and plans a visit there. |
| Another FemDom 20 Questions 2007-11-02 10:49:34 |
Can you guess the FemDom item I have in mind before the handheld 20Q game can? |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play- and a Bonus 2007-11-01 11:28:08 |
Today's YouTube FemDom clips cover a variety of topics- ardent foot worship, a message from a Dominatrix, and FemDom in the mainstream media. Plus a surprise bonus clip. |
| XM's Gloves & Public Play 2007-10-31 12:50:12 |
XM wears her black leather kid gloves to dinner, and keeps them on through the meal. Public FemDom play with leather gloves....practicing for wearing her elegant, erotic new patent-leather gloves to dinner. |
| Sunday FemDom Fantasy Story: Spur of the Moment, C 2007-10-30 16:57:09 |
The conclusion of my re-posted story of Equestrienne FemDom, by orion pony, involving him and his Mistress, Maitresse Lisanne. Plenty of FemDom spur and equestrienne action. |
| A New Link: Mistress Leesa's Blog 2007-10-30 16:55:37 |
A new link on my blog- to that of Mistress Leesa. She's an educated, witty, former Pro-Domme, now Wife Mistress. |
| More Anal Training 2007-10-29 10:41:05 |
More of XM's increasingly frequent ass-fucking of me, as She turns it from a dramatic event to a near-routine exercise in permanently loosening my cock-hole for Her FemDom penetrative pleasure and fun. |
| Two More Pieces of FemDom Confection 2007-10-28 13:39:37 |
Two more very affecting Cruellan FemSupreme pictures. I discuss the allure of viewing a Woman's filthy boots, and knowing I will be tongue-cleaning them. |
| Some Friday FemDom Eye Candy 2007-10-28 13:38:35 |
Some affecting FemDom images from Cruella...the fantasy land of Female Supremacy |
| More On Sunday's XM's Ass-Fucking and Ass Worshi 2007-10-27 20:26:15 |
More thoughts on how I feel during XM's now more-frequent raping of my male ass with Her strapon cock of fingers. |
| Wham, Bam, Thank You, XM! 2007-10-26 11:51:38 |
XM indulges in multiple invasions of my ass before we even get out of bed one recent morning. |
| YouTube FemDom Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-10-25 11:55:28 |
A wide mix of FemDom topics are featured in this week's YouTube videos. Some erotic leather fetish clothing, a discussion of corporate FemDom, public leather FemDom leash play, and a hot Dominatrix-prisoner scene! Enjoy! |
| More FemDom 20 Questions 2007-10-24 12:17:27 |
More fun with a handheld electronic 20 Questions game. Can you guess my FemDom item? Can the game guess it as well? |
| Sunday FemDom Fantasy Story: Spur of the Moment, P 2007-10-23 12:16:34 |
A re-posted, now-unavailable pony play story once found on Maitresse Lisanne's defunct website. Read about extreme, erotic human pony play with the famouse Equestrienne Domina, Maitresse Lisanne. |
| Working on The Vanilla-FemDom Interfaces 2007-10-22 13:46:02 |
My trial re-collaring with XM is now half way through its two month term. I provide some insights into how the work-in-progress that is our real-life, alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship is going. |
| More On male Submission & FemDom Dating 2007-10-21 13:55:34 |
More thoughts exchanged with MsReciprocity on the behavior of so-called submissive males. Why are they so animalistic? What should a Domme do? How does She discern the potential submissive from the merely fetishistic male bottom? |
| Hope Springs Eternal For The male Submissive 2007-10-20 14:23:44 |
Some thoughts on male submissive courting habits and tenacity as they pursue Dominant Females. |
| The OWK: FemDom B&B or Wealthy Domina's Country E 2007-10-19 11:47:47 |
I review the facts and stories of this well-known European FemDom destination location. Is it a FemDom B&B, a business, or merely a wealthy Domina's country estate, opened on occasion to the public? |
| YouTube FemDom Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-10-18 12:18:11 |
Beautiful, erotic, luscious leather fetishwear is the theme of today's YouTube FemDom video clips. |
| Another FemDom 20 Questions 2007-10-17 21:03:47 |
See if you can guess my FemDom item before the electronic 20Q game can. |
| Fluid & Solids Dynamics: XM's Monitoring System 2007-10-16 14:08:30 |
My Mistress, XM, has devised a system by which She intrudes upon my personal daily life, even when I am not in Her presence. Read how She affects the elimination of any waste or sexual fluid from my body, in order to intrude into my most private m |
| More On "Crusty" Nipples & XM's Training Regime 2007-10-15 12:06:30 |
Now that I'm back serving XM again, She has resumed Her regular nipple training. Consequently, my nipples are now, to use Her term, "crusty" again. Read why She is so fixated on my nipples, and what She does to keep them the way She likes them. |
| Visiting the OWK 2007-10-14 12:44:16 |
At the direction of my Mistress, XM, I extend an offer to other Mistresses to consider a group FemDom trip to the OWK. The OWK, short for "Other World Kingdom," is a private FemDom-run castle in the Czech Republic. Some additional aspects of |
| Could I Live A 24/7 Lifestyle in The OWK? 2007-10-13 16:00:20 |
On reading the posts of a friend/fellow FemDom blogger, I discuss my feelings about actually living 24/7 in such a FemDom environment. Additionally, I offer thoughts about FemDom for-profit B&Bs, and related topics of 'FemDom' worlds. |
| XM's New Focus Strapon Play & Training 2007-10-12 12:05:02 |
My reflections on XM's recent move to routine, frequent, vigorous ass-fucking of me, digitally and with Her strapon cocks. |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play- and a Bonus Cl 2007-10-11 11:39:31 |
Three YouTube FemDom clips, and a bonus. Today's subjects are eclectic- some ponyboy play, some erotic thigh high black patent leather lace-up boots, a sensual Domina and Her slave, and some whip work. Enjoy! |
| A FemDom Dating Fantasy 2007-10-10 14:09:18 |
A fantasy FemDom date based upon an email XM received from a married male 'dom' suitor on alt.com . What might happen if XM accepted the male's offer to buy her new leather boots- but on XM's terms? |
| New Gloves for Mistress: The Pictures 2007-10-09 14:23:40 |
Pictures of two pairs of XM's new leather gloves from our recent glove shopping trip. Each is an interesting, unusual pair of what appear to be, on the surface, vanilla gloves. But each has a special aspect that makes it a killer FemDom leather g |
| It's About More Than Just Female Domination..... 2007-10-08 12:25:32 |
Building on a Domme's blog post, I discuss the topic of FemDom relationships as more than simply offering oneself supinely to a Woman to be collared and owned. |
| Another Friday FemDom 20Questions Game 2007-10-08 12:24:15 |
Can you guess the FemDom object I have in mind before the handheld 20Q game can? |
| XM's Humbler Play 2007-10-06 15:54:05 |
XM's reaction to me in a humbler for the first ime in Her presence. |
| A FemDom Omni-sexual Morning 2007-10-05 13:11:06 |
A recollection of a recent morning's FemDom sex romp, with XM skewering my male ass digitally and with Her strapon. Then demanding Pussy worship, to complete Her 'omnisexual' morning of penetrating and being worshipped. Not to mention feeding me g |
| Lifestyles, Fantasies and Limits : Part 3- XM's O 2007-10-04 13:14:11 |
Part 3 of this short series details XM's online dating experiences with alt.com. Learn how Female and male experiences with the popular alternative lifestyles dating site differ. And the wild propositions XM received in Her few weeks exploring the F |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play- and a Bonus Cl 2007-10-03 13:00:52 |
YouTube FemDom video clips with a theme- pony play! See Booted Dominas mount and ride their human male ponies. Plus a bonus leather fetish clip. |
| Lifestyles, Fantasies and Limits : Part 2 2007-10-02 13:43:17 |
A further discussion of limits and the complex realities of building a total FemDom lifestyle relationship. |
| Lifestyles, Fantasies and Limits : Part 1 2007-10-01 11:45:14 |
A discussion of the role of limits, and how they can function even in vanilla relationships. Part 1 of a short, multi-post series involving limits and FemDom relationships. |
| The Humbler Field Test: An Addendum 2007-09-30 12:44:11 |
Some live trials of the humbler with a Mistress reveals a few more things you should know about using one. Certain positions and activitives may result in its slipping off. Read to find out how and why! |
| More Friday FemDom 20Questions 2007-09-29 14:50:22 |
Read about another attempt by the electronic version of the popular game to guess the FemDom item which I have chosen. |
| FemDom Activities: The Inspection! 2007-09-28 12:14:44 |
Some thoughts on an oft-overlooked ritualistic activity- a FemDom inspection of Her male property. It's degrading, humiliating, and ought to be performed more often! |
| YouTube Tuesday FemDom Triple Play- and a Bonus Cl 2007-09-27 13:23:02 |
Today's YouTube FemDom video selections feature simple, classic fetish clips. Dominas in leather gloves, boots, corsets, etc. A visual FemDom feast and celebration of the Female form in leather and fetishwear. |
| FemDom Fantasy- In Her Cock Cage: Part 4 2007-09-26 13:03:33 |
Part four of a continuing FemDom fantasy series. Her boy becomes a Domina's puppy for the day, confined to Her cock cage for hours, fed and watered like a doggie, taken out to relieve himself, and more... |
| Alternative FemDom Relationships: The Training Imp 2007-09-25 13:20:20 |
Insights into the role of training, especially on vanilla behaviors, as a necessary part of a functional FemDom lifestyle relationship. I offer my views on the need for the training of the male, and some of the benefits to both Domina, Her male prope |
| Farewell: My "ReRelease" From XM- Part 4, What X 2007-09-25 13:17:20 |
As an example for others contemplating a total, alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship, I offer my comments on what my sometimes Mistress, XM, could have done differently, recently, to maintain our relationship. Detailed observations on the dynami |
| Friday FemDom 20Questions 2007-09-24 19:22:05 |
Read to learn, can the handheld 20Questions game can guess my latest FemDom item? |
| FetishWear & FemDom Attraction 2007-09-23 16:22:16 |
How FemDom fetish wear- tight leather corsets, skirts, leather boots and gloves- attract the visually-oriented submissive male. Is Mistress V's contention that males always gravitate to the best Female Dominantly fetishly-attired eye candy correc |
| Are Dominas Different Than Other Women When It Com 2007-09-22 11:56:44 |
Observations on how Dominant women are often different in their dating habits than vanilla women. |
| YouTube Tuesday Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-09-21 11:40:14 |
YouTube FemDom video clips with a Japanese theme. Watch beautiful Japanese Dominas train their human puppies to lick boots, while another long clip portrays the breaking of a male to his imperious, striking Mistress. |
| Fall Life- & House-Cleaning 2007-09-21 11:38:39 |
Some thoughts on my recent cleansing of my home of items from prior FemDom relationships. The ritualistic implications of removing now-unwanted items with suspect juju. |
| On Shared FemDom Intimacies: Tigress R's Observat 2007-09-20 13:34:33 |
Some thoughts on how FemDom relationships allow a wider range of intimacy, without necessarily involving sexual relations, than vanilla relationships typically can sustain. As such, FemDom intimacy allows for more play, and with more partners, wit |
| Returning Her Spurs 2007-09-20 13:32:48 |
My description of part of the continuing 'splitting up' process with XM. In this post, I write about the return to her of certain FemDom items, including the spurs which I gave to her, and hand-sharpened, in order for them to give more pain when sh |
| FemDom Fantasy- In Her Cock Cage: Part 3 2007-09-19 13:43:38 |
Part 3 in my continuing FemDom fantasy/potential reality series, "In Her Cock Cage." This time, Mistress uses Her cock cage for viscious corporal play. And then, humbling, humiliating cleanup. |
| Farewell: My "ReRelease" From XM 2007-09-19 13:41:17 |
My sometimes-FemDom partner, XM, has once again gone on an anger jag, and left our involvement. Read about the dynamics of a real, long-term, intense and passionate FemDom relationship. And how it can end- over something as inane as being 45 minutes |
| Friday 20 FemDom Questions 2007-09-18 14:15:25 |
Another FemDom 20Questions game. Can you beat the handheld unit to guessing my FemDom item? |
| Humbler Video- Longer Version 2007-09-17 11:46:47 |
The full video of my using a humbler. Scenes of the details of how to put on one, previously left on the cutting room floor, are included. |
| Field Testing A Humbler 2007-09-16 12:16:20 |
A video-based field test of 'the humbler.' I film my usage of my new humbler, describing how to use it, what the effects are on my range of motion, and how it affects my psyche. |
| Cycling and the Shaven male submissive 2007-09-16 12:13:47 |
Why do so many male cyclists spend so much time worrying about crotch lubrication? Your shaven male blogger offers new insights into yet another benefit of being a male submissive.... |
| Teri's FemDom Tuesday YouTube Triple Play 2007-09-15 05:49:16 |
I borrowed three excellent FemDom YouTube video selections from Teri, of Booted Up. Come see them, laugh, and enjoy! |
| Accepting XM's Choices: A FemDom Lifestyle Play I 2007-09-14 11:26:28 |
A pragmatic view of my on-again, off-again FemDom 'relationship' with XM, my sometimes-Mistress. With Her recent MIA status, I review what we actually seem to have. Is it a relationship? an involvement? Read to learn of my reflections on a real |
| Her Whipping Boy, Part Two- A Short Story 2007-09-13 13:10:57 |
Part two of my short story on how it feels to be a Domina's intimate, precious whipping boy. Used simply to vent her frustrations from the day. Then returned to routine service for her further pleasure. |
| Saturday's 20 FemDom Questions 2007-09-12 12:29:49 |
Another round of fun with the handheld 20 Questions game trying to guess what FemDom object I have chosen. |
| A New Toy 2007-09-11 12:13:49 |
Thinking my newly-rekindled FemDom involvement with XM would last, I bought a humbler on eBay. Discussion involving toys, this new toy, and plans for a field test. |
| Another Summer FemDom Romance Reminiscence 2007-09-10 20:13:48 |
Another recent summertime FemDom romance- MissLiz. My second post about my summer weekend daliance with this southern Domme Belle. And the aftermath. |
| End of Summer FemDom Reflections 2007-09-10 20:09:45 |
My reflections on a summer of wonderful, light FemDom play and involvements. Very much like vanilla summer romances. I note the similarities, and review my summer of seemingly fleeeting, if recurring, FemDom romances. |
| YouTube Tuesday Triple Play & A Bonus 2007-09-09 11:45:56 |
YouTube FemDom and Female fetishwear video clips to delight! One Domme show the 'practical' side of thigh boots and opera gloves, while two other Mistresses engage in heavy scent play. Finally, a gorgeously fetish-attired Woman in a hot sports c |
| A Labor Day Dose of FemDom Eye Candy 2007-09-08 13:51:11 |
A pictorial display of some very affecting images of FemDom power and beauty. |
| FemDom Fantasy- In Her Cock Cage: Part Two 2007-09-07 12:47:38 |
Part two in my series of a Mistress, Her boy, and the use of Her 'cock cage' to train him. In this episode, he undergoes more training in the art of cock sucking...with surprising results. |
| More FemDom 20 Questions 2007-09-06 13:01:43 |
Can the handheld 20 Questions game guess another FemDom item? Read and discover! |
| The Artificial Intimacies of Cyberia 2007-09-05 12:11:42 |
Inspired by a piece on a fellow blogger's site, I muse about the reactions of readers to other FemDom bloggers, past and present. How much do we know about those we read? Why do we presume to know so much more, or believe everything we read? |
| A Recent Snafu with XM- Part Three 2007-09-03 11:45:42 |
My final piece musing about the recent misunderstandings and hiatus of play with XM, my sometime Mistress. I reflect on how XM's treating me as Her pet, to be trained, might improve the situation, rather than treating me with erratic anger. An |
| A Jug of (Mistress' Golden) Wine, A Loaf of Bread 2007-09-02 11:51:43 |
Inspired by another blogger's tale of spontaneous golden play gone awry, this piece discusses some of internal challenges and conflicts for the male submissive who is presented with surprise FemDom play. It attempts to explain several reasons why |
| YouTube/Google Tuesday Triple Play- and Bonus Clip 2007-09-01 12:41:49 |
Five FemDom video clips from Google Video and YouTube. One is the trailer for a rather famous bdsm short featuring Mistress Karen. The other four are rare video clips from OWK films, including two pony riding videos, one whipping, and one simple, |
| Distance Involvements: MissLiz, Part One 2007-08-31 12:21:49 |
A discussion of one of my past distance FemDom involvements. How it led to a satisfying visit, with a surprising result. |
| Limits, Pleasing, and Surrender in a FemDom Relati 2007-08-30 12:06:37 |
An exploration of how a male submissive's limits might be seen from a different perspective, and take second place to the priorities which please his trusted Domina. Strapon and anal play are discussed to illustrate why some limits might make lit |
| Some Recent Thoughts on Cuckolding- Part Two 2007-08-29 12:40:21 |
What if cuckoldry did not involve sexual activities? An exploration of the rather pithy actual definition of 'cuckold,' and attendant implications of a Domina using non-sexual FemDom play with which to cuckold Her boy. |
| Anyone For 20 Questions, FemDom Style? 2007-08-28 12:05:13 |
Read how a hand-held 20 Questions game does guessing FemDom items.... |
| In The Cock Cage, Part One- A FemDom Fantasy 2007-08-26 15:38:33 |
The first part of a realistic FemDom fantasy story involving a Mistress' 'cock cage' and Her male property. Oh, the places She'll be taking him..... |
| A Recent Snafu with XM- Part Two 2007-08-25 13:24:03 |
Further musings on the complexity and richness that is my stop-start, evolving alternative FemDom lifestyle involvement with XM. |
| YouTube Tuesday Triple Play & A Bonus Clip 2007-08-24 12:37:27 |
Female Dominance aplenty in my selections of four video clips for my readers' pleasures. Clips feature a male consuming the detritus of his Female Owner, a FemDom shoeshine boy, hardcore faceslapping and kicking of males, and pet feeding of the m |
| A Recent Snafu with XM- Part One 2007-08-24 12:35:52 |
A discussion of some relationship issues involving XM, me, and a recent misunderstanding regarding play dates and together time. |
| And In A Different Vein- From The OWK 2007-08-23 12:29:59 |
Whereas my prior post focused on powerful Women in their own right, this post features two clips depicting Women exercising their power over males. Here, rather than sensuous, sumptuously-leather-clad Women, we see Women actively bindng males and cau |
| More FemDom Eye Candy From The Marquise 2007-08-23 12:28:30 |
My friend The Marquise recently sent me more FemDom pictures. These celebrate the glory of beautiful, powerful Females in leather. |
| Pleasing XM 2007-08-22 18:43:21 |
Another delightful evening and morning of FemDom play with my beloved, sometime Partner, XM. |
| The Chronicles of LadyL: Part 6- Aftermath 2007-08-20 12:41:07 |
A sixth installment of my story regarding my sometimes FemDom Partner, LadyL. In this piece, I reflect on her comings and goings, and the ultimate effect and benefit of my involvements with LadyL. |
| Another FemDom Night with XM 2007-08-19 17:08:51 |
Another erotic night and morning of shared, passionate FemDom play with my Female Partner, XM. |
| Another Summons/Invitation To Play with XM 2007-08-18 14:02:30 |
A summons from XM to serve and please Her during a night of FemDom play and fun. |
| YouTube Tuesday Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-08-17 12:33:16 |
Today's YouTube FemDom clips include some ads for male submissives to serve at the house of the FemDomme Society, and one very affecting clip of a Japanese Domina puppy training her boy. Priceless! |
| Nipple Condition: "Crusty" 2007-08-16 11:14:28 |
XM has pronounced my nipples 'crusty.' A condition I describe, and explore the retraining through which She is putting my nipples, as She and I have begun playing again regularly. |
| On The Effects of FemDom Play On Writing Styles 2007-08-16 11:11:40 |
At the urging of my friend MsM, I examine the recent change in my writing style about matters FemDom. A discussion of how my play reunions with XM have affected my posts, and resulted in more 'animated' pieces, with more emotion. |
| FemDom Fiction: Serving Mistress Eve, Part Three 2007-08-15 12:28:33 |
The concluding part of a fictional FemDom tale, "Serving Mistress Eve." Mistress Eve's new slave is shaven in his scrotal area, serves his new Mistress and her friends, orgasms for them on Her shoe, and more.... |
| A Night of FemDom Play with XM- Part Two 2007-08-14 16:29:05 |
Part two of my recent night and morning of blissful, fulfilling FemDom play with XM. Female golden nectar was drunk, XM's fragrant ass was worshipped. A discussion of loosening my ass and, one day, sharing that ass with Her prospective Domme friends |
| A Night of FemDom Play with XM- Part One 2007-08-13 13:01:02 |
Details of my recent night of intense FemDom play with XM. Boot worship, nail care, nipple torture, outdoor whipping, golden nectar play and spitting, and intimate FemDom sex. Part one of two. |
| A New Meaning for the Term "Cock Cage" 2007-08-12 11:30:19 |
Upon discussing caging of the male, i.e., restraint behind bars like a pet, in FemDom play and relationships, a new meaning for the term 'cock cage' occurred to me. Thus, a discussion of caging the male inside bars, from which multiple dildos an |
| 24/7 FemDom Again- The Kellys' Breakfast 2007-08-11 11:57:21 |
Sparked by a post by Emma Kelly on her and her husband's FemDom marriage and its relation to a 24/7 situation, I offer some additional thoughts about what constitutes '24/7 FemDom.' Is it 24/7 leather and cuffs, or simply the constant intrusion |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-08-10 13:19:44 |
My Tuesday YouTube FemDom video clip selections include sensuous leather opera glove action with Mistress Rouge, a FemDom exercise class, and some hot, sexy boot worship and FemDom posing. |
| Her Whipping Boy, Part One- A Short Story 2007-08-09 11:28:14 |
FemDom fiction about what happens when a Domme needs stress relief in the form of using Her male property as Her whipping boy. How Her stress begins to become transmuted into his fulfilling pain. |
| FemDom Fiction: Serving Mistress Eve, Part Two 2007-08-08 13:23:36 |
Part two of the erotic tale "Serving Mistress Eve." Her new boy is collared, his belongings taken to remote storage, and the boy is inspected by Mistress Eve's friends, he is allowed to serve them all, while they discuss his fate in front of them |
| You Cannot Make These Things Up...... 2007-08-07 12:54:45 |
A report on my real-life, recent FemDom involvements. The comings, goings, and related behaviors of the dominant Women in my life..... |
| Happy Dominas 2007-08-06 12:56:29 |
My reflections on serving and pleasing, bringing happiness, to two special Domina Partners. How the activities pale in comparison to my simply desiring to bring smiles to their faces with my service, pain and suffering, and obedience. |
| Some Recent Thoughts on Cuckolding- Part One 2007-08-04 12:46:23 |
Some reflections on how cuckoldry in a FemDom relationship may differ if introduced during the relationship, versus the male submissive knowing in advance that his Mistress is a Cuckoldress. |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-08-03 11:37:31 |
Four FemDom/fetish YouTube video clips, mostly featuring black leather boots. In one case, those lethal Female boots do some wicked trampling! In another, a simple, pretty pair of black leather knee-boots is adorned with boot jewelry. |
| Trust with a Capital "T" - Part 2 2007-08-02 12:27:07 |
Stemming from a fellow blogger's own insights about the difference between collared relationships, and serious play involvements, I finish my reflections on the differences between trust and "Trust," in a FemDom relationship. |
| FemDom Fiction: Serving Mistress Eve, Part One 2007-08-01 11:56:39 |
Part one of an unattributed, erotic FemDom tale of a male slave meeting his new Female Owner for the first time. He is stripped, inspected, and his training by his new Mistress is begun... |
| Trust with a Capital "T" - Part 1 2007-07-31 12:24:38 |
A discussion of how the trust required for playing with a FemDom partner is different from the Trust involved in consenting to a long-term collared relationship. |
| Bonding FemDom Scents and Tastes 2007-07-30 06:31:50 |
Some further thoughts on the importance of Female scents and tastes in a FemDom relationship. Sparked by another blogger's observations, I reflected on the added dimensions a FemDom coupling has that many vanilla ones lack. To their peril. |
| Some FemDom Eye Candy 2007-07-29 11:52:02 |
Three moving, powerful images of Female Dominance. |
| Play Styles and Their Effects 2007-07-29 11:49:19 |
Comments on how differing FemDom play styles affect me, and my Partners. How, ultimately, the effect of my Domina's choice of activities affects me because it excites and fulfills Her. |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-07-28 13:25:35 |
Boots are everywhere as my Tuesday YouTube FemDom selections play. Two video clips focus heavily on the Domina's boots, while another features heavy corporal action and spitting. The last presents a classically fetish-attired smoking Domina. |
| The Chronicles of LadyL: Part 5- Disconnected Agai 2007-07-27 12:07:26 |
The fifth entry in my series describing my ongoing FemDom involvement with LadyL. In this installment, I describe LadyL's behavior in the wake of XM, my ex-Mistress', departure. It's a mixture of interest, desire, then, as typical, absence. |
| As The FemDom World Turns- Part 2 2007-07-26 12:59:49 |
After receiving several emails and comments on my prior post regarding bloggers who come and go, I had some additional reflections. Perhaps the reality of FemDom lifestyles are different than some submissively-oriented males bargain for. For some, |
| As The FemDom World Turns 2007-07-25 05:03:59 |
Recently, some FemDom blogs have announced their cessation of writing and publishing. Or just gone silent. Is it abnormal? An epidemic? My thoughts on the phenomenon, in the first of two posts on the subject. |
| Birthday Surprise 2007-07-23 10:55:14 |
A brief description of some of the activities I shared with a close Domme friend who gave me a birthday surprise last week. |
| More on The Cuckoldress' YouTube Trampling Videos 2007-07-22 12:47:28 |
Having read other another blogger's comments on these video clips, and reflected on them further, I found them to be perhaps the hottest FemDom YouTube clips ever. As such, I revisit the reasons I find them so affecting, and discuss in more detai |
| 24/7 FemDom? Mrs. Claudia's Question 2007-07-21 12:07:10 |
After reading Mrs. Claudia's thoughtful comments on the feasibility and meaning of '24/7 FemDom Lifestyle,' I was moved to record my own thoughts. For me, it's less about the activities, then the 24/7 psycho-emotional effect upon the male subm |
| Plastination & Partial Castration: An Ultimate mal 2007-07-20 11:37:43 |
With the Lady Daphne- Castratrix story as a reminder, I finish my description of how plastination would allow for my realistic, partial-castration FemDom fantasy. Feasible, possible, and extremely debasing.... |
| YouTube Trampling Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-07-19 13:02:24 |
Tuesday's YouTube FemDom videos, with a theme- trampling!!!!!! Two clips feature a Cuckuldress trampling Her sub/hubby in white, stiletto-heeled, OTK boots, while making out passionately with Her lover. Totally hot!!!! |
| More Online Idiocy from Alt.com: TheNurse 2007-07-18 13:09:25 |
What is it that leads online Dommes to believe that any scrap of attention they give a submissively-oriented male who does not wear their collar will be given priority? I provide a detailed look at one alt.com "Domme's" behavior in her seemingl |
| Crossing The Line: Friend or Mistress? 2007-07-17 12:02:13 |
Upon reading two other bloggers' posts, both of them Mistresses, regarding having male submissives work for them, I reflect upon the difference between "doing for" a Domina as a friend, and as Her submissive. How are these males wired, that the |
| Reflections on the Lady Daphne, Castratrix Story: 2007-07-16 12:16:15 |
Some reflections on why the "Lady Daphne, Castratrix," story so captives my mind. Why did this story, as opposed to others involving male castration, so affect me and, evidently, some readers? |
| An Evening with LadyL 2007-07-15 12:00:39 |
A description of my recent reunion evening with my long-time friend and sometime FemDom Domina play partner, LadyL. |
| Some Further Thoughts on MistressM's Training Pro 2007-07-14 11:19:54 |
Further thoughts about MistressM's pragmatic training regimen, as echoed by another FemDom blogger. |
| Mistress M's Transformational Training Program 2007-07-13 19:14:56 |
A discussion of MistressM's transformational training plans for me one weekend. Her schedule reads like a FemDom fantasy, but it was to be reality for me that weekend.... A view of the matter-of-fact, functional approach to training me and improv |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-07-13 19:12:58 |
Four YouTube FemDom clips. Three involve public images of fetishwear Dommes, with emphasis on boots, leather and latex. The last is a video of one of my favorite bdsm-oriented (sort of) songs. |
| FemDom Fiction: Ritual Castration of a Sex slave- 2007-07-12 12:24:45 |
The final part of the Lady Daphne Castratrix story. In this final episode, the Mistress enjoys multiple orgasms from the pleasure of watching and feeling Her eunuch bring her to sexual release, while she taunts and teases his neutered, shrunken cock. |
| Castration Fantasies vs. Sexual Sacrifice 2007-07-12 12:22:05 |
Some more reflections on plastination, vs the use of liquid preservatives in the Lady Daphne Castratrix story. Would there be a way in which a Castratrix/Mistress could display Her male sexual trophies in a more accessible manner than a fluid-fill |
| FemDom Fiction: Ritual Castration of a Sex slave- 2007-07-11 16:15:56 |
Part 3 of the reposted FemDom fantasy story of Lady Daphne, Castratrix. In this episode, she finished her ritual de-balling of her new eunuch, then allows for two weeks of healing. She then removes his now-empty, scarred scrotal sac as her last troph |
| FemDom Eye Candy For Saturday 2007-07-10 11:33:13 |
Three affecting, erotic FemDom pictures and the reasons why they are so meaningful to me. Equestrienne Domme with cruel spanish spurs, riding Her boy. A Mistress relieves Her bladder into Her waiting boy's mouth. A booted, leather Domina gently s |
| Strawberries & A Footbath 2007-07-09 13:04:20 |
A simple story of servitude and devotion. On a hot summer day some years ago, I served XM, after Her long hot drive back from the beach, with a soothing, cooling foot bath, tongue cleaning, ice water and fresh strawberries. A fond and precious memory |
| The Chronicles of LadyL: Part 4- The Offer 2007-07-08 11:47:38 |
Part four of my story of involvement and relationship with my play partner, LadyL. In this segment, we play again, several times, while she is near on business. And, during a hiatus from XM,I offer LadyL a proposal regarding ownership of me from a di |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-07-08 02:20:19 |
This set of YouTube videos feature Lee Merriwether as that villainess Dominatrix, Catwoman. She faceslaps a henchman in public, rules her male arch-villains, hatches the plot to dehydrate five henchmen to gain entry into the batcave, and directs t |
| The Chronicles of LadyL: Part 3 2007-07-01 03:25:09 |
The third part of my series about my long-running, complex FemDom involvement with LadyL. In this installment, She visits me to go house hunting in my area, then summons me to Her hotel room for dinner, play, and a pedicure. |
| FemDom Fiction: Ritual Castration of a Sex slave- 2007-06-30 05:32:28 |
Part two of a FemDom fantasy story invovling ritual castration of a male eunuch-to-be by his Mistress. |
| On Being a Domina's "Whipping boy" 2007-06-28 12:24:43 |
In response to a request from a Domme friend, this post discusses what it's like to be merely the "whipping boy" of a Mistress, when she needs to release her stress on something- her male property. It discusses my feelings, motives, and what th |
| Nested Roles- FemTops Who Dominate 2007-06-27 18:38:46 |
From my personal experiences, I describe a combined alternative style I have seen, best expressed as 'nested.' A woman who is a top in the sense of relationships and overall behavior, but can become a Domina, with a connected, impassioned, intimate |
| Reinforcement from Another Blogger On FemDom Match 2007-06-27 18:37:02 |
A comparison of some of my recent emails to Dominas on alt.com, and my profile, with desired and undesired characteristics, as voiced by a fellow blogger, Releasing Domina. |
| The Chronicles of LadyL: Part 2 2007-06-26 03:44:00 |
A recollection of my visit to LadyL's home for a transformational weekend in my life as a male submissive. |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-06-25 12:59:03 |
A selection of four FemDom YouTube video clips. One involves an Asian Female gang retribution on males, another is a funny twist on something similar, the third features breath play. The bonus clip is a sensuous video of a Woman celebrating Her fabul |
| More On Venus & Mars On Canvas: Veronese 2007-06-23 20:47:51 |
Another view of Venus & Mars on canvas. This time, by Veronese, a Venetian, a century later than the Botticelli. |
| Botticelli's "Venus and Mars" : A FemDom Perspe 2007-06-22 11:52:58 |
Review of a famous Botticelli painting of Venus and Mars, espousing implicit FemDom themes. |
| FemDom Fiction: Ritual Castration of a Sex slave 2007-06-21 12:04:57 |
Part 1 of a re-posted fictional FemDom tale of ritual male castration for a soon-to-be member of a Female-Dominated harem. |
| More On Sources of Submission, Intimacy & Acceptan 2007-06-21 01:38:55 |
More thoughts on the relationships between intimacy, acceptance, submission and Dominance. How, with compatible partners, we can become fully intimate, accepting each other for our whole selves, and, thus fully transfer power and engage in a beautifu |
| A New Link: MsSnS's Impact 2007-06-19 14:16:25 |
A new link on my blog, MsSnS's site, Impact. I discuss what I enjoy about her writing and perspectives, as well as provide some brief samples of her writing. |
| The Saga of LadyL: Part 1 2007-06-19 14:14:42 |
The beginning of a multi-part series on my involvement with FemDom play partner LadyL. Our first meeting, the gift of leather gloves, and some affecting, heartfelt public-play. |
| Intimacy, Acceptance & Sex in FemDom Relationships 2007-06-16 10:29:11 |
A discussion of why non-sexual activities have become paramount to me in FemDom relationships. The role of acceptance, as evidenced through the sharing of edgy, non-mainstream, alternative activities is developed. |
| What's Sex Got To Do With It....? 2007-06-14 15:13:54 |
A discussion of the importance and primacy of conventional, penetrative sex in a committed, alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship. Is vanilla sex still the most intimate, bonding activity a FemDom couple shares? If not, why not? |
| YouTube Tuesday Triple Play & A Bonus 2007-06-13 14:12:07 |
Four YouTube FemDom clips, involving public displays of fetishwear and boots, and boot and glove play. One video features and extensive, elaborate scene of a Domina boot trampling Her prone male slave. |
| Some Observations Concerning Dominas & Online-to-I 2007-06-12 12:49:39 |
Observations on the behavior of Dominas met online. How their profiles and declarations of seeking a long term, alternative FemDom relationship with a quality, experienced, etc, etc, male...so often are the opposite of the actions, i.e., playing with |
| What Did She Know, and When Did She Know It? 2007-06-11 10:47:20 |
Now that I routinely run into my ex-Mistress' daughter, a young adult, I wonder how much she knew or knows of our FemDom relationship. What did my ex-Mistress explain as the reason for her releasing me? How much did her daughter realize over the yea |
| MIL....... 2007-06-10 10:51:33 |
A FemDom twist on the usual meaning of the acronym, MILF. Instead, a list of FemDom acronyms are provided, with pictorial examples. |
| Doing My Part For FemDom Education 2007-06-10 10:48:12 |
A humorous look at some of the educational institutions, members of whom, via Sitemeter, are shown to visit my FemDom blog regularly. Additionally, some notable governmental organizations. All, hopefully, learning more aboutthe wonderful alternative |
| You (Cant') Make Me So Very Happy, Baby...... 2007-06-09 16:10:24 |
Some thoughts about happiness, love, and alternative lifestyle FemDom relationships. If your Mistress can't 'make you happy,' then how do you get there? And what about Her? |
| The Invitation: Fate's Three Warnings 2007-06-08 12:30:13 |
Some reflections on the invitation of a Domme friend to come visit Her to assess our long-term chemistry for a potential, committed, ltr, even tho a relationship could not be consummated for some time. The invitation allowed for my own deeper intr |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-06-07 10:50:40 |
FemDom video clips from YouTube. One is a long, luscious clip of Mistress Vanisha walking her hooded, leashed boy through the old city of Montreal at night, freely discussing FemDom with onlookers, while she poses for pics. Another clip features outd |
| My Exodus To Palmerston North, North Island, New Z 2007-06-06 11:23:09 |
The tale of a long-ago trip half way around the world to visit a prospective Domina. Seeing the town of Palmerston North, NZ, triggered memories of the trip, and my exodus from Wellington to Palmerston, to start my journey thru NZ for two additional |
| Moby's Dick While I Am Sick...But Wait...There's 2007-06-06 11:21:23 |
A brief post written while recovering from a cold. It features a YouTube clip of a 1960's classic FemDom pic, "The Female Bunch." |
| Scat Play with Mistress Sarah 2007-06-05 13:56:35 |
A collection of thoughts on the male submissive's worship of his Female Dominant's ass, culminating in attending to her solid waste elimination at toilet. In one instance, a Domme friend and I concocted a very realistic faux-scat play scene we foun |
| MistressM's Ritual Panty Therapy 2007-06-04 10:57:12 |
A recollection of one very memorable Mistress and her creative use of her panties to intrude into my life in a guiding, loving manner. |
| A FemDom Piercing Story 2007-06-03 13:50:28 |
A story concerning a long-ago, brief date and involvement with a Dommish nurse from eHarmony. |
| A Bootworship Video Reprise 2007-06-02 11:38:22 |
A wonderful little YouTube clip of Herrin Cynthia, again. This time with two head-to-toe, rubber clad bootsluts worshipping her. |
| On Devotion to The Female Cleft 2007-06-01 11:58:02 |
Thoughts on the revelation by another male submissive blogger on his wife/Mistress' new form of enforced Pussy Worship. Such long, close proximity to the Female Cleft promotes attitudes of spirituality, reverence, and the sense of Goddess Worship an |
| YouTube Triple Play- and a Bonus Clip 2007-05-31 10:05:32 |
Three YouTube video clips devoted to the theme of Female boot worship. Plus a bonus clip of the lovely OWK Mistress, Asmondena, forcing two boys to clean her black thigh-high boots with their tongues- stiletto heel and gritty soles included. |
| On male submissive profiles for Vanilla Dating Sit 2007-05-30 11:49:05 |
A discussion of reasons to fully disclose a male's need and appetites for an alternative FemDom relationship before even meeting a woman who may not have engaged in a lifestyle relationship before. The electricity and 'hum' of FemDom energy on |
| A Fresh Start 2007-05-29 12:41:46 |
Reflections on FemDom dates since my release from XM, my ex-Mistress. Some thoughts regarding how recalling my relationship with her is actually a benefit for me, going forward. As well as helping me focus on the nuance of looking to be the source of |
| Ahoy! Painful & Powerful FemDom Eye Candy 2007-05-28 13:24:29 |
A brief review of the movie "Pirates 3," from a FemDom viewpoint. As well as a description of the intense feelings of desire for sadistic, painful treatment by a beloved Mistress which the movie caused in me. |
| A Benefit of Alternative Lifestyle FemDom Experien 2007-05-27 14:06:47 |
A discussion of the value of having actually been in an alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship, as evidence of said, when discussing it with a woman who has yet to experience it. |
| Another 20 Questions 2007-05-26 11:28:23 |
Read about how the handheld version of this classic game, 20 Questions, rises to the challenge of guessing a "humbler." |
| YouTube Triple Play: FemDom Boot Worship at Home 2007-05-25 10:30:03 |
A nice little YouTube video clip portraying some domestically-situated FemDom action. From passionate bootlicking to hair-pulling, we see a woman worshipped by her adoring male. |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: Royal Mistress 2007-05-24 16:06:19 |
This YouTube clip features a Mistress at leisure, poolside, while Her boy worships her feet from in the water. She alternates between dunking his head with her pretty feet, and enjoying his fervent licks and audible kisses to her feet. |
| Carpe Diem Indeed! 2007-05-23 12:45:02 |
My recollections of the last time XM (my ex-Mistress) and I were together as Mistress and sub. Explores some ideas to consider- pay closer attention when you play with your Mistress/partner. You never know, sometimes only in retrospect, that it was t |
| An Affecting Picture 2007-05-21 15:11:04 |
A post focusing on a very erotic and moving FemDom picture of an equestrienne Domme leading Her male pony by short leather reins. It stirs deep submissive feelings in me, which I discuss in detail. |
| Her Healing Touch: A Memory of a FemDom Massage 2007-05-20 15:14:39 |
A true story of a long-ago FemDom massage with a sexy, powerful masseuse. |
| Visual FemDom 2007-05-19 11:07:34 |
A few hot FemDom pics and a brief discussion of what about them excites me. |
| Beyond Seeking a Domina: Discerning Styles and Che 2007-05-18 11:42:26 |
Discusses post-Domina seeking phase of FemDom dating involvements. Is there any way to predict chemistry between the Domme and her sub? And the success of the involvement? |
| YouTube Triple Play: Worshipping Penelope's Boots 2007-05-17 15:30:24 |
A FemDom YouTube video clip in which a blindfolded male tongue-worships his Mistress' black leather, lace-up, stiletto-heeled boots. Good camera work and some stern, commanding verbiage by Mistress Penelope. |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: Seated Leather 2007-05-16 14:42:59 |
A beautiful video clip from YouTube showcasing a breathtaking Domme vision in black leather corset, opera-length black gloves, and thigh-high lace-up stiletto-heeled boots. The camera lovingly re-creates the view that her ardent bootlicker would h |
| YouTube Tuesday Video Clip: Leather Special 2007-05-15 19:16:42 |
A delicious FemDom clip from YouTube. It features a woman wearing fabulous knee-high brown leather boots with straps across the instep. She takes it up a notch or two by wearing soft, supple and tight leather pants, and red, opera-length leather glov |
| Some Affecting New FemDom Pictures from Marquise 2007-05-14 14:01:36 |
A variety of affecting FemDom pictures and the feelings they evoke in the author. |
| Letting Go of Anger.... and She Who Is Angry 2007-05-13 20:09:22 |
Discussion of the 'final' meeting with my XM (ex-Mistress), and how her anger resurfaced. The post goes on to discuss in some depth the ways in which a male's submission can be more effective and deeper by dealing with his own anger issues. |
| FemSupreme and Politics: Sarkozy v. Royal 2007-05-12 10:53:17 |
Discusses the concept of Female Supremacy in the context of the recent French elections. |
| YouTube Triple Play: New Al Bundy 2007-05-11 13:10:35 |
Humorous FemDom/foot fetish video from YouTube. |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: Animated Fetis 2007-05-10 10:56:55 |
Animated YouTube clip of Dominatrix Mistress Spencer from the XBox game Rumble Roses. Though an animated character, her movements and demeanor, crop, thigh boots and actions bespeak the cool, aloof attitude of a classic Dominatrix. |
| YouTube Tuesday Video Clip: Pro Domme Interview 2007-05-09 13:10:13 |
YouTube video clip of interview with Brazilian Pro Domme, Mistress Kalyss. |
| Pussy Power! : 20 Questions FemDom Style 2007-05-08 16:50:09 |
A humorous description of how the handheld electronic version of the classic game, 20 Questions, does with the subject "Pussy." Questions and answers included! |
| FemDom Eye Candy From The Marquise 2007-05-07 13:00:38 |
My friend, The Marquise, recently sent me several emails full of delectable FemDom eye candy. Here are two which deeply affect me. Boots and beautiful FemDoms. |
| FemDom Sugar Play- A Reminiscence 2007-05-06 14:58:36 |
A A humorous anecdote of FemDom play with my Mistress, including an example of where swift and effective discipline is often warranted to keep the male submissive in line and obedient. |
| The Spurs: A Fitting "Parting" 2007-05-05 13:44:46 |
A discussion of some of the aspects of ending an alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship. How are various toys distributed, and how does the process affect the former partners? |
| Combining Golden Play & Cuckolding: Real Humiliati 2007-05-04 13:26:21 |
Some thoughts on deep, genuine humiliation. Not merely wearing and drinking my Mistress' golden champagne. But the thought of Her cuckolding me, then directing Her male lover to void his bladder, containing his leftover seed, onto me. Pure, unadulte |
| FemDom Fetishes: Mistress Millicent's Desires 2007-05-03 12:59:07 |
A brief piece highlighting Mistress Milliscent's own fetish appetites. Rather than assume most, if not all, fetish desires are male-submissive driven, this post, with Milliscent's passionate desires included, illustrate that there are plenty of Dom |
| FemDom Bonus Video Clip: Madame Helene's CBT & Ni 2007-05-02 11:33:53 |
Madame Helene engages in cbt play with her boot, then ravages her boy's nipples. Short but sweet. |
| Video Triple Play: Madame Helene's Golden Shower 2007-05-02 11:31:36 |
Madame Helene gives her personal boy, bootdog, a long and soaking golden shower, punctuated by her prowling about him like a big Feline. Her control and the range of her golden stream are incredible. Very raw and inspiring play between a Mistress and |
| Video Two For Tuesday: Madame Helene's Urethral S 2007-05-01 14:06:13 |
Video from Danish Madame Helene's site depicting her urethral sound play with her personal boy, bootdog. She lubricates his cock, then gently but firmly inserts a long steel sound, stiffening her boy's shaft. Then withdraws it and gently strokes hi |
| Video Tuesday: Madame Helene's Boot Play 2007-05-01 14:04:22 |
Links to video clip of Danish Madame Helene and her boy, bootdog. She engages in explicitly painful ball kicking of her male, then delivers blows to his chest. The clip finishes with his fervent tonguing of the boot that has just delivered pain to hi |
| Another Learning Experience: Dating MistressM 2007-04-30 18:03:32 |
A reminiscence of a FemDom involvement with MistressM. A reflection on the joy and fun of a prior involvement, as well as lessons learned from a too-quickly developed situation, with expectations set too high, too quickly, by both the Domina and me. |
| Blogging and Relationships 2007-04-29 04:56:45 |
Discusses the benefits of using a blog for providing non-topping expressions and thoughts by a submissive for his Female Dominant to read, and for her to use as a basis for her own reciprocal communication back to him. |
| How Do You Say In FemDom......? 2007-04-27 13:28:37 |
A humorous piece pondering FemDom-oriented expressions that would be equivalent to various vanilla sayings, e.g., "all talk and no action." |
| Great Expectations? Considering a New FemDom Invol 2007-04-27 10:35:07 |
Explores the differences between expectations and behaviors in a new FemDom dating involvement, and the expectations and more established behaviors in a matured, long term alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship. Discusses differences in fit on van |
| On FemDom Relationships and Post-Childbirth Stress 2007-04-25 13:59:10 |
New research on stress after childbirth suggests even more strongly why a healthy, alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship/marriage is beneficial. |
| YouTube Triple Play: S&M Queen For A Day 2007-04-24 13:50:11 |
Funny video clip on relationship developments and the inclusion of Female Domination and s/m. Mixes some insightful relationship observations with clever writing and campy portrayal of FemDom activities. |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: FemDom S&M 2007-04-24 13:48:19 |
A very artistic, film noirish video clip in three acts. FemDom activities include pain play, objectification, Fem-fem romantic s/m play, and bootworship involving FemDom fetish attire. |
| YouTube Tuesday Video Clip: Bootlicking 2007-04-24 13:46:36 |
Video clip of male slave worshipping his Mistress' black leather boots. |
| Seeking Loveless Relationships: The Sad Case of Mi 2007-04-23 20:19:10 |
True story of a male submissive pursued by a Pro Domme. |
| Some Thoughts On BDSM vs. Vanilla Personals Sites 2007-04-22 18:04:12 |
Discussion of the different nature of responses from Women from bdsm and vanilla personals sites. From extensive experiences with both approaches, some insights are suggested involving behaviors of people within the context of a bdsm personals enviro |
| On male submissive profiles for Vanilla Dating Sit 2007-04-20 13:47:28 |
Some final thoughts on the topic of submissively-oriented males using vanilla, non-bdsm-specific personals sites to find/meet dominant women. Discusses an overview of qualities- maturity and patience- that are important in the search, and, also in a |
| On Benefits of Combining Sexual Female Dominance a 2007-04-19 10:48:27 |
Discusses the benefits to Females of combining sexual and pain play. For those Females are squeamish about corporal, objectification, or other alternative activities, this piece provides a concrete example of the benefits which a Woman may enjoy from |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: Fetish Mistres 2007-04-18 12:09:09 |
Video clip of Fetish Mistress in black PVC dress, opera-length gloves, thigh boots, walking outside English house in the country. |
| YouTube Triple Play: Worshipping Maitresse Alexand 2007-04-18 12:07:33 |
Video clip of Maitresse Alexandra, Parisian Pro-Domme, having Her boots worshipped by an adoring male. |
| On male submissive profiles for Vanilla Dating Sit 2007-04-16 17:01:30 |
Discusses explicit reasons to share with a vanilla woman, who is open to a FemDom relationship, for pursuing such a relationship. Specifically ideas are provided to explain to a woman what the benefits are from sexual and non-sexual female dominance |
| A First FemDom Date With a Woman From A Vanilla Pe 2007-04-16 02:01:01 |
Description of a first, FemDom, date, with a Woman from a vanilla personals site. |
| On Sources of male submission: Misunderstanding Te 2007-04-14 13:25:13 |
Discusses a mistaken interpretation of one of my posts on milking a slave pre-play. Differences in submission from expectation of male orgasm, vs. simply devotion to his Domina and a desire to please, are discussed. |
| On Married male submissives 2007-04-13 15:04:28 |
Discusses potential options for Mistresses approached by admittedly married males who allege that their wives are ok with their seeking a Domina. |
| Hey! I'm A Columnist On Sky's New Website! 2007-04-12 17:52:38 |
Points to my new article, "Meeting The Right Female Top/Dominatrix," on Mistress Sky and Raven's new website. The first of two parts, it discusses reasons males should consider seeking different types of Female tops/dominas, and how that may be ac |
| On male submissive profiles for Vanilla Dating Sit 2007-04-11 15:38:03 |
Follows earlier post on this topic by discussing the context of placing an explicitly-submissive personals profile on a largely-vanilla, or non-bdsm personals site. Discusses difference between advertising for fetishes, versus genuinely expressing ca |
| On male submissive profiles for Vanilla Dating Sit 2007-04-10 05:21:35 |
Discusses ideas and sample text for males to write explicitly submissively-oriented profiles for use on largely vanilla personals sites. Part 1 of 3, this post also suggests topic to omit in such a profile. |
| Happy Easter: Change & Channeling Nina 2007-04-09 00:09:01 |
Easter is a celebration of change. Discussion of changes in past, existing and potential FemDom relationships, with an emphasis on being open to what will come your way. |
| A FemDom Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words 2007-04-07 16:19:48 |
A simple deconstruction of why I adore a particular OWK picture of FemDom power. |
| On Anal Training 2007-04-07 15:57:28 |
A discussion of my experiences with anal training and butt plug briefs at the behest of my Mistress. |
| A Question Regarding male Toilet (Re)Training from 2007-04-07 15:53:31 |
A discussion of fetish desires of a male already in a relationship, and some thoughts on how styles need to be meshed in these situations. Specifically, the post discusses aspects such as alternative activity wiring, intimacy, benefits to the Mistres |
| More on Submission vs. Enslavement of the male 2007-04-07 15:51:17 |
Discussion of ways in which to describe how male submissives differ from male 'slaves.' How and why we even bother to use descriptors. |
| On "Seeking" vs. Being Open To a Domina 2007-04-06 21:38:33 |
Discusses issues involving finding a Domina. Rather than 'seeking' a Domina, the author contends that the male should, rather, self-examine and be prepared to serve, and simply be open and actively prepared to serve Her when Mistress Right, also op |
| On Scary FemSupreme Views: Elizabeth's "Hot Fema 2007-04-06 01:03:42 |
Discussion of some rather expansive conceptions of Female Supremacy, spurred by a fellow blogger, Elizabeth's, own post. A comparison of unbridled FemSupreme doctrine, as espoused by some bloggers, with bigotry in other forms. |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: Lady Petra in 2007-04-03 18:12:08 |
Euro-Domme Lady Petra strolls casually through town in extreme black leather Domme regalia. |
| YouTube Triple Play Video Clip: Shopping in Ballet 2007-04-03 18:10:27 |
YouTube video clip of Lady Lacie shopping in leather jacket, sexy red-black mini, and knee-length black leather ballet boots. Stunning! |
| More on Realistic FemDom "Fantasies" 2007-04-02 18:55:37 |
Discussion of the use of 'fantasies,' developed to be feasible, for simulating a more severe, deep and edgy long-term FemDom lifestyle. Such pragmatic fantasies can allow for shorter, 2-3 day play periods which simulate deep, strict and edgy FemDom |
| Little Moments: Indulging In Fantasy Within A FemD 2007-04-01 04:05:23 |
A discussion of feasible FemDom fantasies. Includes a description of a Domina friend's recent fantasy-come-real for her boy, an excerpt of a popular FemDom fantasy story, and my own feasible FemDom fantasy. |
| On FemDom Body Markings 2007-03-30 04:52:15 |
Some insights and reflections on the probable experiences of a mortician in the handling of the occasional male submissive's body in a FemDom relationship. |
| On Mothers As Sources of male Submissiveness 2007-03-27 10:50:08 |
Some thoughts on mothers as a source of male submissiveness. Contrary to various FemDom authors who ascribe causality for male submissivness to Maternal care, I find, upon my own reflections , that this is not the case- at least for me. |
| A Portrait of A Domina? 2007-03-26 16:33:25 |
Discusses an alt.com personal ad by a cheating Mistress. What type of male would wish to serve a Mistress who is already breaking another male's trust? Is cheating for bdsm gender-specific? |
| A Submissive Anthem: The American Breed's "Bend 2007-03-25 17:18:08 |
Recalls an old '60s tune. In retrospect, how the song's lyrics express the essence of a FemDom relationship. |
| An Unexpected Development In Seeking A FemDom Rela 2007-03-24 06:16:54 |
A discussion of an unexpected development in my search for a new Mistress. A trusted and longtime Domina friend suggests considering each other for a relationship. The post considers how such a situation can potentially result in a relationship that |
| On First Time FemDom For The male submissive 2007-03-23 14:05:57 |
A discussion of the 'chicken and egg' dilemma of a new male submissive- which comes first, experience or desire? How does an inexperienced male submissive get to serve a Mistress? Does, or should, prior submissive experience matter? |
| Some Thoughts On Full Disclosure for A New Relatio 2007-03-22 04:54:13 |
Discussion of how approaching a woman in hopes of beginning a new alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship probably requires full, upfront disclosure of the nature of the desired relationship. And the male's submissive orientation. |
| More On FemDom Wiring: Energy States 2007-03-21 11:34:17 |
A discussion of the implications of whether a Mistress receives, or loses, energy while engaging in alternative lifestyle Femdom activities and play. Explores connections between being "fully wired" for FemDom play, and whether the Domina is energi |
| YouTube Tuesday Video Clip: Mistress Slips on Her 2007-03-20 05:50:36 |
A beautiful, slender, leather jacketed, skirted, booted and gloved Domina with a paddle. And a look. Quite arousing! |
| Dating Insights Redux: Female Dominance and "Tota 2007-03-20 05:48:05 |
Observations on a Domina's search for a new male submissive, and what effects an actual date with a new boy may trigger in Her, relating to past relationships. |
| FemDom Ass Worship 2007-03-19 03:16:46 |
Pictorial on Femdom ass worship and some thoughts about it as I currently hunger for it. |
| Frames of Reference 2007-03-17 01:10:50 |
A brief post on how my frame of reference with respect to news headlines or media messages has been irreversibly affected by my FemDom experiences. |
| On Objectification in a FemDom Relationship, Part 2007-03-16 00:30:47 |
Part 2 of a 4 part series on objectification in an alternative FemDom lifestyle relationship. Discusses motivations of the submissive male regarding objectification- why he wants it, and what it does for him. |
| On Objectification in a FemDom Relationship, Part 2007-03-16 00:28:56 |
An introductory discussion ( part 1 of 4) of objectification activities in an alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship. |
| On Punishments In A FemDom Relationship 2007-03-14 23:25:46 |
A discussion of the roles of, and differences between, punishment and discipline in a FemDom relationship. |
| YouTube Tuesday Video Clip: Leather Mistress Takes 2007-03-14 00:36:13 |
Video clip of a Dominatrix walking in public in thigh-high black leather fetish boots with stiletto heels, a crop, leather jacket and gloves. |
| YouTube Two For Tuesday Video Clip: Boot Torture 2007-03-14 00:34:32 |
Video clip of Mistress torturing her hooded male submissive with her crotch-high patent leather black boots' stiletto heels. |
| FemDom Relationships: Does Like Attract Like? 2007-03-13 12:21:09 |
A discussion of whether or not submissive males who focus on generic 'Female Supremacy' attract Dominas who are different than those attracted to male submissives with more firmly-held opinions about selecting the Female they wish to serve. Does me |
| Getting Back On The FemDom Horse: A First Date 2007-03-12 14:52:34 |
Describes some non-obvious aspects of a first date between two people desirous of an alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship |
| On FemDom Relationships and Conflict Resolution 2007-03-10 21:56:32 |
A discussion of the benefits of the conflict resolution process in a commited, alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship or marriage. |
| A Midsummer Night's Whipping 2007-03-09 15:12:02 |
A remembrance of a special night of outdoor whipping by my Mistress. A short erotic description of a night of nearly-perfect FemDom leather and pain play outdoors. |
| On FemDom Wiring and Female Dominance In A Relatio 2007-03-08 17:29:17 |
Discusses the differences between 'wiring' for Dominance in a commited, alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship, and merely claiming dominant tendencies. The nature of commitments exchanged in such a relationship is discussed, and ideas suggested |
| Some Initial Reflections on my Release From a FemD 2007-03-07 21:01:54 |
A discussion of some initial thoughts on release from an alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship. How one adjusts and moves forward. What it means to be in such a relationship, yet still accept the potential for uncontrolled, external events ending |
| YoutTube Two for Tuesday Video: Poker Domme 2007-03-07 13:17:19 |
Humorous video clip commercial of male attempting to deny, to his wife, being with a fetish leather Domme in his office. Enjoy! |
| YouTube Tuesday Video Clip: SunSilk 2007-03-07 13:15:20 |
SunSilk video commercial with explicitly FemDom, fetish content. Short, but oh- so sweet! Bad frizzz! Enjoy! |
| YouTube Triple Play: Feeding Time 2007-03-07 13:13:29 |
YouTube FemDom video of Woman's shiny boots preparing an apple for eating from Her stiletto bootheels. |
| FemDom Intimacy: Ms. Alice's Recent Post 2007-03-06 13:04:41 |
Discusses how alternative lifestyle FemDom relationships promote greater intimacy than mere vanilla relationships. MsAlice's recently posted thoughts on the topic are referenced and considered. |
| On Punishment vs. Discipline in a FemDom Relations 2007-03-06 13:02:01 |
Discusses the differences between punishment and discipline in a FemDom relationship. |
| The Transformational Nature of Punishment 2007-03-06 12:59:41 |
A discussion of how the use of punishment in a FemDom relationship distinguishes it from vanilla or 'kinky' relationships. As well as explicitly incorporates a transformational element to the alternative lifestyle FemDom relationship. |
| Chastity & The ClubFem KTB: A Field Test Review 2007-03-05 16:16:46 |
A review of the ClubFem MCD/KTB by the author, from a night and morning spent wearing this simple, inexpensive and highly effective male chastity device. |
| On Humiliation vs. Pride in Serving A Dominant Fem 2007-03-04 18:22:54 |
Discussion of the male submissive's feelings of both humiliation and pride in serving his Domina. How the Domina's intention of humiliating Her male submissive may, in fact, result in his pride at being so used and humbled in Her service. |
| Chastity vs. Draining the male Before Play 2007-03-03 18:39:58 |
Discussion of male submission for his own sexual release, vs. from lust for his Domina and a pure desire to serve Her. |
| More On "Transformational" FemDom Activities 2007-03-03 14:49:58 |
For the wired, alternative FemDom activities can be ends unto themselves, as well as means to other ends, for the effects the activities have on the partners. |
| Love, FemDom and Wiring 2007-03-03 14:45:12 |
Discussion of how various alternative lifestyle FemDom activities cause different reactions for a FemDom couple than when used by vanillas for 'spicy sex,' |
| Love, Mental Health and FemDom 2007-03-03 14:42:18 |
Discussion of new brain research as it relates to mental health, the brain when in love, and FemDom activities |
| On Chastity- Part 2: The Toys, The boys & The Obje 2007-03-02 21:35:37 |
Further discussion of chastity, specifically among alternative lifestyle FemDom couples for reasons other than actually prohibiting the male submissive from orgasmic ejaculations. |
| Metaphysical Aspects of FemDom Strapon Sex 2007-03-02 20:12:24 |
Reflections on the sexual fullness and completeness, the omni-sexuality of a Domina with Her strapon cock and Her Cleft. Some deeper implications of strapon sex beyond simple penetration of the male submissive/slave. |
| On Chastity- It's Not About The Toy 2007-03-01 15:50:21 |
Thoughts on male chastity in a FemDom relationship. Discusses the inadequacy of toys, the deeper level of bonding achieved by chastity sans devices. |